What about mistress's persistent pestering and beating?

What about mistress's persistent pestering and beating?

What if mistress pesters me to death? Facing mistress, everyone hates it. Because mistress is one of the important reasons for the breakdown of marriage, when dealing with mistress, the original match needs to be calm and orderly. Here's how Xiaosan can persist in fighting!

What if mistress insists on playing? 1 1. You need to untie the bell and tie the bell.

There are many original matches. If you meet a stalker, you will fall into chaos. In fact, you should keep yourself calm at this time. Moreover, when Xiao San is pestering her husband, she must not give her any more pressure. In this case, Xiaosan's plan will succeed, because men hate women who talk about things and women who put pressure on themselves. They will transfer all the pressure of mistress to her husband and let him send him a signal that he needs help. When mistress is pestering and beating, the wife should give her husband more space, give him more consideration in life, let her husband feel the beauty of the family and abandon mistress.

2. What should I do in the face of a crazy mistress?

Some mistresses are not only harassed by telephone or WeChat, but even run to home or where their husbands work. In this case, the original match must stand up decisively. Let Xiao San go to the restaurant alone to carry out psychological warfare attacks, and find out whether Xiao San wants money or needs someone. If the amount is too large, you can sue her for extortion. If you want someone, you can use some strict requirements to repel San Xiao's idea, such as her husband leaving home clean and giving alimony to himself and his children every month, so that San Xiao can understand that if she wants to divorce herself, she will pay the price to build a nest. At the same time, the most important thing is to let her husband show his attitude in front of her after the conversation, indicating that he will never divorce, and let San Xiao give up gradually.

3. The husband is still indifferent

No matter whether the mistress or the original match is most concerned about his position in this man's heart, first of all, the original match should reach an understanding with her husband. No matter how the mistress makes trouble, whether it is forced or threatened by chatting information, her husband should not have any reaction. Once the husband gives a response, contacting Xiaosan will intensify, and Xiaosan will feel that he has caught her husband's weakness. There are some things that need her to solve. Then the premise is that the husband should explain some things between them clearly. The original match should also contact San Xiao's parents, telling San Xiao's parents that San Xiao may make some radical behaviors. Communicating with San Xiao's parents from a caring angle will make San Xiao's parents stand on the original match's side, and then control San Xiao's behavior. The original match must not be particularly strong when playing against Xiao San. It is necessary to pull everyone around you to your side in a roundabout way, so that Xiaosan is isolated and helpless, so that she can give up her obsession and stay away from her family.

When dealing with a mistress, the original match should never use the method of tearing videos in the street, because this behavior will not only make her husband feel inappropriate, but even cause public opinion and cause different degrees of harm to all parties. Instead, it is to stay calm and orderly, so as to get her husband's praise. When we deal with the mistress incident, we are actually playing a game, trying to make our husband understand what a good woman should look like and what a good match should look like, so as to make him give up the idea of running away from home.

What if mistress pesters me? We have been married for three years. After 80s, my husband and I did all the crazy things, online dating and getting married. We have been living a separated life since we got married. We just transferred back to work recently and got together. My husband is a charming man. He is perfect, purposeful, capable of working, talkative and likable. Now I have achieved the position of company manager, and my value is on the rise. I belong to the kind of person who looks a little gentle and has a strong heart. He just took a fancy to my self-reliance, excellent work and good looks, which made him look good in front of my colleagues. An elder who can tell fortune once said that we are destined to be together, and he will be promoted this year. But I don't want this. There are too many such examples in my marketing department. When men have money and status, they begin to have other ideas.

At the beginning of March, I found a short message from a woman in my husband's mobile phone, saying that she wanted to hear her husband's voice and asked him to call her. The husband said that she met her at a dinner party. Originally, she joked that the two sides had no opposing images and could get along. The girl took it seriously. My husband later explained that he had a wife and children, but he just played a joke on her. She didn't believe him. That girl called my husband on weekend night, and he got bored and asked me to answer it. Her voice is very gentle and beautiful, saying that if you think of anything, you must tell my husband, or you won't sleep. I was angry, but I answered her politely, just once.

As soon as my husband heard me say such a thing, he took away his mobile phone and shouted at her. I've never seen my husband have such an expression. It's a little scary. After my husband returned to the company, I asked him if he had contacted her again. He said he reassured me that he was too busy to do these things. Besides, he only has children and me in his heart, and she is not his type.

After my husband transferred back, I looked at his mobile phone, and the information that the woman gave him was in his mobile phone interception record (her husband blocked her mobile phone number, so she changed to another number, PHS, Mobile, Unicom ... she worked in Unicom, so that she could call her husband with all available numbers). I was very angry and had a quarrel with my husband. Later, I thought it was better to deal with outsiders than to subdue my own people, so I treated him better than before. He has just transferred back to work and is very busy, so he needs to start some new jobs again. I fully support him. My colleagues in my office greeted him, and our life was quiet for half a month.

I sprained my ankle these days. He will pick me up as soon as he is free. I appreciate carrying me upstairs and downstairs. But last night, I saw the girl's information on his mobile phone. So I sent her a message: "Please don't do these boring things in the future. We are very happy. Find someone who can give you happiness and future. " Husband grabbed the phone and deleted all the information. Blame me for talking to her. I said no, I just wanted to know what she was thinking.

Husband said, don't pay attention to her for a long time. But I really want to see what kind of person she is. My husband was so angry that he broke the bowl. I said I just felt sick. He said I didn't feel comfortable going out. I left as soon as I got dressed. He chased me to the door and called me. I didn't answer. He slammed the door and left me alone.

It's almost 23 o'clock at night. It has just rained, and there is no one in the street. I was so scared that I had nowhere to go but to go home. He locked the door. I was about to leave when he opened the door and smiled unnaturally. I didn't say anything. I see through what happened tonight: he doesn't love me, even though he is so crazy about it.

This morning, I said I wouldn't eat. He brought me a box of milk and wanted to buy me rice on the way. I said I was not hungry, so I drank milk. He didn't even ask me how to eat at noon and how to go home and leave.

My heart is in a mess. I want to call that woman and ask the teacher to give me some advice. How should I deal with such a woman?

Answer:

Indeed, it is very difficult. But do you think it is really because she loves your husband so hard that she is so hard to break you up?

I don't think so. At least, judging from your husband's relationship with her, it's not that deep. The reason why she wants to be this fox by hook or by crook is largely because of you. Your husband is right. Just ignore her and it will be fine after a while.

Because in the relationship between men and women, the most lethal thing is not the dispute, but the indifference. As long as you husband and wife can calm down, ignore all her actions, stay calm when the waves are calm, and let her play alone, it won't be long before she gradually loses interest.

But what you did was just the opposite. Not only did you answer her phone, but also answered her short messages, and you kept proving to her how much you and your wife love each other. Yes, if I were an introverted girl, I might be relieved. But if you meet a competitive girl, she will compete with you even if she is desperate. After all, you aroused her fighting spirit. Not separating you two will only prove her lack of charm. Especially since she is a girl who has a crush on your husband. When a woman falls in love with a man, the most unbearable thing is that she is worse than the woman around him. The last thing she wants is for her wife to show happiness in front of her. This is a challenge!

So, as curious as you are, curiosity kills the cat. Restrain yourself and stop paying attention to all her actions, so that you can win this tough battle!

Besides, don't think that your husband doesn't love you anymore. For that woman, you play tricks on him every day, and no man will be in a good mood. Men sometimes get upset, and sometimes their reason is suppressed by emotions. Maybe you are in a bad mood because of the interference, but please be careful not to pour all this bad mood on your husband. Otherwise, if a man loves you again, there will be times when he can't stand it.

Time is a fragment in your eyes. How many pieces of time do you waste in a year? An hour? One day? A month? It doesn't seem difficult to waste two hours a day, but after one year, it means wasting a whole month! Terrible, isn't it? Stick together "fragment time", let's fly together!