What does it mean to get married at both ends?

Double-headed marriage is a very popular marriage mode in Jiangsu and Zhejiang provinces in recent years, and it is likely to become the trend of a new generation of young people. So, what does it mean to get married at both ends? In fact, women don't marry, men don't adopt, the two sides are equal, and they will have two children in the future, one with the man's surname and the other with the woman's surname. For details, please see the introduction provided by this website.

What does it mean to get married at both ends? In reality, the only child is the majority, and the marriage problem has become a controversial issue for both men and women. The man wants to marry the woman, and the woman wants to invite her husband home, so they argue and argue, and the two sides talk endlessly, arguing as a bee. Later, a wise man came up with a way to kill two birds with one stone in a new era, that is, two ends have a wedding room and two ends get married. Simply put, getting married at both ends is neither a man marrying a woman nor a woman adopting a man. Men and women get married at both ends, and husband and wife go at both ends.

How did the two marriages go? Jiangsu and Zhejiang have been married twice. The man does not pay the bride price, and the woman does not pay the dowry. The parents of both sides hosted a banquet to entertain the guests. Give birth to two children, one for each family.

First, it embodies equality between men and women. Now most children of marriageable age are only children. There is an old saying in China: There are three kinds of unfilial, and the last one is the biggest. Although people don't pay attention to this now, it is also happy to have a child with his own surname and inherit his own blood. This is also a kind of equality between men and women: men and women are family.

Second, share the pressure of children. Now every family has two children. The cost of raising children is really high. Both parents helped to raise them together, sharing a lot of energy and economy for the young couple.

Third, support the elderly. Small families with only children have to support four to eight old people. The burden falls on two people. The child can't bear it. No matter which side of the elderly is sick, the other side can take care of each other and let the young couple work with peace of mind.

If the education level, economic conditions, values and outlook on life of the two families are similar, double-headed marriage is a marriage concept worth popularizing.

How to treat the rise of "second marriage" in Jiangsu and Zhejiang? I have always felt that this is an inevitable trend. In the past economically backward era, people's survival ability mainly depended on manual labor, and women were obviously vulnerable groups in this respect, so women always lived by men, but now the society has changed, and this is just that women try their best to pursue gender equality in a limited space. The word "marriage" should have been replaced by the times long ago, and there is no "out" and ".

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