Fortune-telling says half-way lovers can be trusted but not believed _ Fortune-telling says half-way lovers can be trusted but not believed. What do you mean?

What is the old saying in rural areas that "a couple is always a thief halfway"?

In the relationship between husband and wife, the old people in rural areas often say "and while one man guards it, never stop". Many people think that although this sentence is catchy to read, it can't fully understand its meaning. So what does this sentence mean?

Half-husband and wife refers to the situation that both parties or one of them has been married before marriage and had children with the other half in the past. Two people are not a couple, so they are called halfway couples.

Always a thief, that is, couples who were originally not matched come together, and there will be a lot of distrust between them. Maybe now neither of them will fully pay for forming this family, but they will have reservations. Because I still miss my children in the past, or I don't trust my marriage enough, and I am worried that my feelings will be hurt again after I devote myself wholeheartedly, so I will always be the thief of the other party.

In fact, this is also a very understandable phenomenon. A person who has suffered a lot in the emotional world in the past and is seriously divorced may spend a long time investigating another person when starting a new relationship. Even if two people get married, they can't easily entrust themselves to each other because of the damage caused by their past feelings.

Although it is often said that "a couple who become a monk halfway is always a thief", there are many concrete examples of couples who are very happy, so whether they are halfway couples or not, they should live a good life. Since we have formed a new family, we should devote ourselves wholeheartedly and live up to ourselves.