What do you mean, a good thing will have a disaster?

When all the good things are done, there will always be disasters. It means that people can't help others excessively, recklessly and blindly, which will bring disaster to themselves.

This sentence comes from guiguzi, do good, don't be extreme, enough is enough. Do someone a favor, be careful, don't do it all for him, let him do it and try it himself, or he will take your help for granted after a long time. It is said that children who do housework properly are more sensible and diligent. The little princess and the little emperor, with their clothes tight and their mouths full of food, did not do housework. They are lazy, willful and demanding.

There are also two people in the world who have the same job and the same income. That one is busy as soon as he gets home, but this one is lying on the sofa watching TV and brushing his mobile phone. Why? It was a habit at first, but the exhausted one did the best.

Help each other, there is a bottom line. Some people are very kind and help their friends do anything. There is no principle. For example, if a friend wants to do something bad and asks you to help, you will help because of your feelings, which will lose the bottom line of being a man and hurt yourself. There is a real case. A bears a grudge against B, and asks his friend C to hit B. C didn't refuse, and he also took a knife with him. As a result, in a panic, B was stabbed in the neck and died. Afterwards, Party A shifted the responsibility to Party C, and Party C paid the price of his life.

Introduction to Guiguzi:

Guiguzi is a mysterious figure in the history of China. Throughout the ages, he has been regarded as a strange man. He is good at keeping himself healthy, trying to figure out his mind, knowing the trend of combining rigidity with softness, and knowing the art of vertical and horizontal coitus. Later, many famous politicians were influenced by him, such as Su Qin, Sun Bin, Lv Buwei and others.

Mr. Guiguzi left many interpersonal communication methods for future generations, so that they can avoid risks, perform better, and avoid putting themselves in the "danger" at the forefront. People say, "a little kindness raises a noble person, and a great kindness makes enemies." Indeed, such cases often occur in real life, and most of them are caused by "great kindness and great virtue."

Since ancient times, the result of "helping the enemy with great kindness" is to do too much good, and the end of "exhaustion" often brings unexpected disasters. Therefore, it seems that the giving of "grace" cannot be too big and too deep; Mr. Guiguzi warned us that "when a good thing is done, there will be disaster." So you must know how to avoid this kind of risk in case you are in danger. So, what does Mr. Guiguzi mean by inexhaustible good things?