What should I do if I meet someone in my life?

People often hear such a sentence: "You have the help of' noble people'". At first glance, I feel a bit idealistic, a bit like a fortune teller. However, when we have experienced some things in society, and then look back, we find that someone in life has made your life, career, study, work, marriage and so on "qualitatively change or jump". These people are what we call "nobles".

Noble position doesn't care about height, noble age doesn't care about young and old, noble gender doesn't care about men and women, and noble relationship doesn't care about intimacy. However, he or she has given us a major turning point in fate and changed the trajectory of our lives. Let me give you two real examples first. One is my college classmate, and the distribution of college graduates is not good. When he arrived at a hospital in a remote mountainous area, he was always depressed and lost contact for many years. But when I graduated eight years ago, we met again and found that he had been transferred to a certain department of the Guangzhou Military Region to hold an important position, and the position was better than that of our assigned classmates. Later, at a party, he told me his story. Once, he went to Guangzhou on business and met an amiable old couple who took the train together. He didn't buy a sleeper because the ticket was tight. After getting on the bus, he gritted his teeth and made up a soft berth (not reimbursed). He had a good chat with two old people along the way. He poured tea for two old people and chatted with each other. In the process of talking about work, he talked a lot about his "no talent" experience and his "ambition". When he got off the bus, the old man left him a phone number. Later, all his classmates went back to work and lived their original lives as usual. Half a year later, he suddenly received a phone call. An old man asked him if he wanted to work in Guangzhou. He said yes, but it was simple. The old man asked him to come to Yangcheng, and his classmates went to Guangzhou. This time, he found the old man heavily guarded. It turns out that this old man is a senior official of the Guangzhou Military Region. His last business trip was to visit relatives and rest in his hometown. The old man is going to retire. Thinking of this little brother he met on the train, he felt that he was more practical, so he transferred our classmates to Guangzhou and changed his life track. This old man is an important "noble person" in the students' lives.

Noble people may also be mortal, and another example is this, which is also a true story. In the 1970s, the monitor of a logistics unit came from Mianyang, Sichuan. On one occasion, two soldiers in his class, both from rural areas, were approaching the age of retirement, but they didn't want to go back to their hometown to farm. They went to the monitor and begged: Can you tell the leader that you want to enter a military school and go to a university? At that time, it was recommended to go to school, and there was no college entrance examination, but the selection of schools should be based on a good foundation. The army leaders recommended several cadres' children, but the exams were not ideal, and the primary school level could not be reached. At this time, the monitor came to the leader's house to plead, and when the leader heard it, let the two men try. As a result, they lived up to expectations and got the top two in the whole military region. Later, the monitor was demobilized and returned to his hometown. More than 20 years later, the monitor learned that these two soldiers, one became a famous expert and the other became a scientist of the whole army. Later, at the party, both of them called the monitor a "noble person".

In fact, the above two examples are more or less heard and met in our own lives. In life, you will meet many people or things that change your destiny, from birth to school, to graduation work, to marriage and having children, and so on. You will meet many "noble people" in your life. Some people complain that they are unlucky and have not met, so how can they meet a noble person in life? I think we should have the following points: First, we should always be ready to help others. People who are good at helping others are easy to get help from others. Therefore, if you want to meet a "noble person", you must first be a "noble person" of others and be prepared to help others without asking for anything in return, so that you can meet a "noble person" in your life. The reason why a noble person helps us is because of our personality and characteristics, and there are no "noble people" for no reason. Second, actively reserve. Our knowledge reserve, experience reserve and psychological reserve are all very important. Noble people help us lead the way, and progress depends mainly on ourselves. As the saying goes, "opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared", that's what it means. Therefore, we still have to work hard and actively reserve. Finally, we should be good at seizing opportunities and take the initiative to meet the challenges of opportunities when noble people appear.

Life is a long road, and meeting a noble person is an opportunity to change our destiny, so we should cherish everyone who has passed through our life and seize every opportunity to enjoy a happy, changeable and magnificent life.