Is it happier to have two boys or two girls

Everyone is very happy. I only have one child. But I can imagine the days of two male treasures and two female treasures, one is the happiness in the first 20 years, and the other is the intimacy for a lifetime. I wanted to have a girl when I was pregnant, and my father and I both wanted to have a girl. On the day of birth, my father was still praying for a girl outside. He was drunk! As a result, the baby boy. I like my baby very much now, and I love to laugh. The first 20 years were me. I want to cultivate him into my ideal boyfriend. In the first 20 years, I will enjoy the joys and sorrows he brought me and love his girlfriend in the days to come.

If you have a second child, you still want to have a daughter. The daughter has been caring, and the son has been caring until he finds the other half. If they do this, they will be eccentric. I don't blame him. But the fortune teller said that my second child is still a boy. What should I do? ...

Whether to keep a boy happy or a girl happy depends on individuals and families. See what you pay attention to.

1, if you have two boys, the boys are naughty and active, which will make your parents very worried. Most of them have no self-control when they study, and they are always urged to study. When they grow up, it will cost a lot of money to buy a house and marry a wife. It's really tiring. Think girls are good. But on second thought, this boy can share the heavy work for you without eating idle food for ten years. For example, a boy can help you carry rice and vegetables home. When he grows up, he can bring back a daughter-in-law and grandchildren, and the family will be happy.

2. If you have two girls, the girls are soft but love to cry, and they often have to be coaxed for a long time. At school, her parents always worry about what she will suffer, and she is also very worried. When she grows up and gets married, her heart is empty, which is not good. However, girls have delicate minds and clever words. They can say warm words to their parents, find out their needs and meet them in time. Every time they go back to their parents' house, they always bring their parents' favorite food and clean up the house inside and outside. No, it's okay.

It depends on what you want. In fact, it's best to have a son and daughter, make a good word, and then everything will be lacking.

My opinion is that both boys and girls are happy. The word happiness has a wide range of meanings. What is happiness? Different people have different answers. After all, contentment is happiness. Boys and girls are your own children, depending on your worldview. In rural areas, influenced by traditional morality, most economists are willing to have boys and pay more attention to boys. Couples can't have boys and girls, and parents are willing, but it's not ideal. The ideal family is a man and a woman, a man and a woman and a flower. Boys' happiness depends on their parents' usual words and deeds, plus the guidance of the reading teacher, so that children can establish a correct outlook on life. After graduation, I don't abide by the law, find a job and work hard to make contributions to the country, realize myself and win glory for my family. Start a family, get married and have children. Parents watch their children grow up and feel that the family is very happy. The same girl, walking an ordinary life path, parents are very happy to see the family. Others say that children make mistakes. Is it happiness to violate control? As parents, having a child is happiness, and a child who takes a detour is a setback in life. Take the consequences. It's very realistic that husband and wife give birth to a boy, the old Wang Zhi's son provides for the aged, and the husband and wife give birth to a girl, and the old Wang Zhi's daughter provides for the aged. So adopting a child is the same as adopting a daughter. Look at your mentality, point of view, boys and girls, the conclusion is different.

In fact, having children is to fulfill social obligations and make contributions to society! In the eyes of parents, children are the hearts of parents, there is no difference, no difference!

I'm afraid even experts can't explain whether it's better for boys or girls. Even if we discuss it for another thousand years, it is still unknown and we can't find a reasonable and legal answer. For the whole family, boys and girls are the same, there is no difference between good and bad!

However, from the actual situation and the current complicated social situation, there are still some gaps between boys and girls. If you ask me, this gap is still quite large and unacceptable. This situation is not expected to change in the short term?

The main reason for these differences is the interest relationship, or the serious injustice of the wealth accumulation and distribution system before and after marriage? In most families, women's rights are higher than men's rights.

Of course, I'm only talking about the modern family, not the social level. Boys and girls enjoy different treatment in marriage and family, resulting in unequal conditions for boys and girls. No matter how hard parents try, it won't help!

Therefore, in the subconscious of most parents, they would rather have two girls than a boy. Especially in relatively backward rural areas, it is not easy to raise a son!

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For this problem, in fact, in the traditional concept of China, it is best for a man and a woman to make a "good", but if I have to choose between two men and two women, then I think it is happier to have two daughters!

Compared with boys, girls will be less noisy and less aggressive. Parents will deal with their children's own quarrels and fights less when raising two daughters, and girls will be quieter in many cases, and their homes will not be full of chicken feathers, and girls will listen to their parents more easily, so parents will be more worried in the process of parenting!

Girls are born with the temperament of love. As sisters, they will take more care of their sisters, and the companionship between sisters will not end because of marriage. But there is less interaction between brothers after marriage, because it seems that the wife is more important than the brother. If there are few contradictions between sisters-in-law, it is easy to have bad consequences!

Regarding property, I don't know if many women feel that they are not interested in property after marriage, or other reasons. Anyway, sisters will fight for property less, and brothers will be different. Our neighbor's two sons fought over property and went to court seriously. That old man keeps talking about what we did!

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Since this question has been raised, it must be compared under the same conditions, so as to be comparable and have an answer.

In view of the financial conditions of the old policeman, if I had to choose between "two sons and two daughters", I would choose two daughters. In fact, the old policeman has an 8-year-old son and an 8-year-old daughter.

The old policeman thinks his daughter is very disciplined and caring. As for the concept of "carrying on the family line, men are superior to women", although the old policeman was born in the countryside, he did not have this concept. I just think my daughter will love her parents more. In fact, my sister and two sisters are more filial to the elderly than I am.

We will grow old eventually. If we have two daughters, we will certainly enjoy very caring care when we are old, as well as the affection and warmth given by our daughters. I feel that boys are not good at expressing their feelings As for counting on their daughter-in-law's care, I never dared to think about it.

As long as you don't have the feudal idea of "carrying on the family line", I think it's best to choose two daughters. As long as you train your children well, you will have a sense of security and support in the future, so that you can spend a happy old age.

I don't think it's good to have a girl or a boy. The key is to have a good child and a good education, which is the main expectation of having a child. Both boys and girls have unworthy things, and there are also unworthy things. First of all, you can't deny boys for the benefit of the present.

Social themes entered the 1960s, which was the era of pure love. It was an era when men plowed and women wove, and life was very difficult. Why did the husband and wife persist? Many children at home didn't say to send them to America! Today, the United States adopts 50,000 abandoned babies and orphans from China every year. Don't China people blush when they shout about economic development all day? This should attract the attention of the government, instead of complaining about the barren grass people all day.

Boys and girls are all the same, and success is enough. Don't think girls are good just because the bride price has gone up. In fact, some girls will also piss you off if they fail. One family doesn't know one, and the monk doesn't know others. It is a social malady that people follow, but China's principle of putting filial piety first has been distorted by some people. And the credit and suffering of giving birth to you and raising you have evolved into the obligation of lifelong support.

In today's situation where there are more men than women, girls are always regarded as the treasure of the family. But no one will think of future social changes. Men don't want to get married in the second marriage revolution. Is this girl a loser? Boys and girls are the same. Education can't blame society and teachers. The key is self-discipline before educating people, that is, instilling positive energy into future generations.

In reality, some parents make uncivilized pornographic videos, but involve their children. Can they educate their children like this? Some people have been kicked by donkeys, and their brains are so rotten that they can't be said to be role models for children. Such an education law can only say that children are worse and more stupid than adults. Therefore, improving people's quality and recuperation is the icing on the cake for the next generation.

Why are there more divorces than marriages? It is the corruption of people's thoughts and the high proportion of money in their heads that leads to the conclusion that egoism is above everything else.

Those who sacrifice pure love for money will be buried by greed for money. It is impossible to get married without people's tolerance and inner recuperation. Why care too much about life? Decades are like lightning. If others can live, so can you. Both the poor and the rich think that family is long-term, and you can't be comfortable with the combination of money and business.

Children are the hearts of adults. Being able to give birth, raise and teach is completely related to the positive energy of adults. It is not only related to the healthy growth of the next generation, but also a guiding light for children to enter the society in the future. No matter how the society changes, the only thing people can do is to set a good example for the next generation. It is to let children carry forward fine traditions, be brave after knowing shame, let children know the painstaking efforts of adults, let children know the basic skills of being a man, and let children become useful talents who can stand on the society. This has nothing to do with having boys and girls.

If we can't control whether to have a boy or a girl, whether it is a boy or a girl, it is our own child. It is happy to have a child and raise a child.

It's just that two boys or two girls in life will bring us different troubles.

Boy: I'm worried that he won't be able to marry a daughter-in-law, and he has a heavy work pressure, unfinished business and harmonious husband and wife.

Girls: I am worried about girls' healthy physical and mental growth, puppy love, boyfriends, the safety of studying abroad, and whether it is a good marriage!

As parents, when we have children, we will solve our troubles with love and guide and educate our children to grow up healthily with wisdom.

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The ever-changing happy world sows itself, making everyone's values and outlook on life different, and the meaning of happiness will be different. Whether two boys are happy or two girls are happy is a matter of different opinions, and everything depends on themselves. (1) sow. A person's growth is greatly influenced by his family. What adults say and do affects children's attitude towards things and the perfection of their outlook on life to varying degrees. Regardless of their living conditions, adults should set an example and let children have a good attitude. (2) cultivation. After children go to school and go to the society, they should communicate with them in time, encourage them to develop a diligent, helpful and brave character, and dare to face the ever-changing world. (3) harvesting. If you work tirelessly for your children all your life, you are poor, you are ordinary and make you feel sick. When you look back on the past, you will feel very regretless. Whether you are a child or a woman, you will always be grateful for your negative performance, because they have inherited the goodness in your human nature, which is where your happiness lies. Imagine that you are rich and can do whatever you want, but your children are unfilial. Are you happy? Therefore, everyone's happiness is sown by themselves, and the opinions and opinions of others are not important. Happiness is not in the onlookers' comments, but only in his own heart. ...

According to parents' preferences, whether two boys or two girls are equally happy,

Most people think that two girls are more relaxed and two boys are more stressed.

There is some truth, but it does not represent everyone's point of view. I think happiness is an objective feeling, and other people's opinions can't affect your feelings. As long as the children are healthy and lovely, beautiful and sensible, and they like it, whether they are two boys or two girls, they will be happy when they are satisfied.

Happiness is mainly about caring about your own feelings, not the traditional ideas of society and the views of others. Everyone's happiness can only be realized by himself, so happiness depends on himself.

Regarding the sex of the child, I think it depends entirely on fate, which is beyond our control. Don't worry about gender, but pay more attention to children's health and happiness. As long as the children are healthy and happy, both parents are happy.

I have a test-tube baby around me, and it took three times to get pregnant. For such a mother, no matter what sex the child is, she will be particularly happy, because this child is hard to come by, because she has made great efforts, and sometimes happiness is very simple.

And all unhappiness comes from comparison and dissatisfaction, so whether it is a boy or a girl, cherish what you have, which is happiness.