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It is not easy to look back when you grow up.

The day before the National Day holiday, in the consumer behavior class, Mr. Tang showed us the talk show "Tell the truth", which talked about the theme of "it's not easy to grow up". It's about the special homework assigned by the teacher of Chongqing Southwest Technology and Business University. At the request of the teacher, students calculate the investment cost of their parents in their own university for four years, even the specific cost per hour, and then write a letter to their parents to tell their feelings. Xiang Shoujun, vice president of chongqing technology and business university Institute of Political and Social Development, talked with five students, including Lian Qing, a freshman majoring in foreign languages, He, a freshman majoring in business planning, and Jun Git Leung, a sophomore majoring in finance. At first, all five students thought the teacher's request was boring, so they wanted to write and say, "What's there to write about?" "It's really boring." "I don't want to write because I don't have a good relationship with my parents." That's what they said. However, when they really do it, they find that their consumption is high, and it is not easy for their parents to make money, but it is easy to spend it.

Shi Peng never thought about spending money when he entered the university. Most of his money is spent on eating hot pot, which costs 1000 yuan a month. After posting, he really felt unspeakable uncomfortable in his heart. It is too heavy. He thought that when he was in high school, he would say three words to his parents every time he came home: "dad, mom, money." Now he finally understands that it is not easy to come to college, and my parents are really the biggest for me at home. He said: "This incident may give my mind the greatest baptism."

He Shi Lang also spent a lot of money at first, and basically didn't communicate with his parents. Now, he recalls that when he was in senior three, his mother retired early to take care of herself, and he was very moved. He hardly said anything about spending money in his letter. He thinks that calculating to spend money is superficial. In fact, it has impacted students' feelings for their parents at home. Through this letter, I have more contact with my family and a much better relationship with my parents.

Associate Qing said that his personality is rough and hot, and he had a bad relationship with his parents before. He felt that he was always bound by his parents, so he didn't report to a local school, but to a foreign school, hoping to stay away from his parents. Through this activity, her relationship with her parents has improved, and she has received letters from her parents. She cried for the first time since she entered college, first because she was moved, and second because she felt guilty.

Jun Git Leung's father staged a "Kung Fu" because of puppy love. Through correspondence, he and his father didn't melt away that rigidity at once. After writing the letter slowly, all the phone calls and emails melted, and I still cared about my father and joked with him.

Xue Fei felt that his parents didn't care enough about themselves, and once doubted whether his parents gave birth to the wrong child. By settling accounts and writing letters, she broke up with her parents. She said that she would treasure all the letters written by her parents and take them out when she was sad. Letters can interpret love. She also said: "A watch is only money, but I think I will try my best to pay back the money, but their love and feelings for me, I think I may never come back in my life."

During the conversation, I felt that all five students showed many emotions: happiness, sadness, longing, guilt and so on. However, the same thing is that all five students have a sense of gratitude to their parents. So what is emotion? Emotion and emotion are a special form of reflection on the objective world, and they are the experience of people's attitude towards whether objective things meet their needs.

We can examine and define emotions from three aspects: subjective experience, physiological activation and external behavior. The concept of subject is a kind of self-consciousness, that is, a sensory state of the brain. People's attitudes towards different things will produce different feelings. In the program, Xiang was very moved after listening to the dialogue of five students. This is the subjective feeling of the item. After listening to five students' hard understanding of their parents, he felt "very touched"; Physiological activation, people's emotional response is often accompanied by certain physiological activation. For example, in the program, when Guan Lianqing talks about being rude and hot, he will feel embarrassed and blush, which is a manifestation of physiological activation; External behavior is the corresponding body posture and facial expression accompanied by emotion. During the conversation, Xue Fei said that when other people's parents came to pick up their children from school, but their parents never picked them up, they felt sad and cried. This kind of crying is the external expression of emotion. In the program, many live audiences listened to the conversation of five students, and some shed tears, which is also an external behavior.

How to distinguish emotion from emotion? Emotion is dominated by desire, and there are many elements such as desire, satisfaction, spontaneity, instinct and unconsciousness, which are mainly influenced by short-term and on-site factors. Emotion focuses on cognitive experience and feelings, which is more cognitive and evaluative, and has more rational components, mainly influenced by long-term stable factors. In my opinion, in the program, the emotions such as happiness, sadness, longing and guilt expressed by five students belong to emotions, because they are affected by the scene and are situational and transient. Because there is music accompaniment at the scene, musicians will play different music according to the content and atmosphere of the five students, some of them are light and lyrical, and the five students will be influenced by the music and the atmosphere at the scene, showing different emotions. At the end of the program, the emotions of these five students are over. However, all five students have feelings of gratitude to their parents, which will not stop because of the end of the program, but will exist for a long time and may develop. Their gratitude to their parents will never change. It is stable for a long time.

This program woke me up, because I had never considered my parents' investment in me before, and I didn't know much about the hardships of my parents making money. I also calculated the cost of my four-year college in my mind silently, and found that it was really an astronomical figure. My parents spent a lot of money on my education. I dare not calculate the tuition fee, book fee and tuition fee before college. I know very well that this is definitely not a small sum. When watching the program, my mood has always been guilty, because I am a child who is not sensible and considerate of my parents. I feel even more guilty when I think of my parents' love and concern for me. My parents worked hard to raise me, and it took them a lifetime of energy and hard work to get my health and life now. Nowadays, many children rely too much on their parents, but they take their parents' help for granted and are not grateful at all. Even when parents can't meet all their requirements, it's a shame to blame their parents in turn. After watching this program, I must not waste my parents' hard-earned money. On the contrary, I should do my best for my family, share the burden of my parents' life, communicate with my parents more and understand them more. We should know how to be grateful and learn to be grateful. I will be grateful and responsible for you and myself in the future with my own efforts.