What do you mean' tripterygium wilfordii in the sky, uncle underground'?

"There are thunder in the sky and uncles in the ground" means: You can't be Fiona Fang if you pay attention to rules and don't follow them. We advise you to act according to the rules, and don't act according to the rules at will, lest you become Fiona Fang. Both ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign. Hakkas especially respect "uncle" (that is, uncle, including mother's uncle and wife's uncle) and equate the status of "uncle" with the god of thunder in the sky, which shows that "uncle's right" is supreme in the eyes of Hakkas. It can be said that among all relatives and friends, "uncle" has the greatest prestige and is most respected.

In primitive society, there were matriarchal clan system and paternal clan system between uncles and nephews in the early days. During the matriarchal clan system, uncle was the closest male elder among nephews and nieces. Together with his sisters, he assumed the responsibility and obligation of raising and educating the next generation. Being supported by nephews and nieces in old age, social status (chiefs, priests, etc. ) and personal property are also inherited by nieces and nephews. In matriarchal society, tertiary rights are subordinate to matriarchal rights, but in paternal society they are only the remnants of matriarchal system. However, Hakka people still inherit the tradition of "respecting uncle" in many life etiquette.

In the wedding ceremony of Gannan Hakka, the nephew gets married, and the uncle is of course the guest. On the wedding day, my uncle will hang a plaque in a conspicuous place in the wedding hall, and write the nephew's name and auspicious words such as "a hundred years of harmony" and "a dragon and a phoenix are auspicious". When hanging the plaque, my uncle needs to keep reciting auspicious wishes. This ceremony is commonly known as "registration card". Among them, only "Uncle" can enjoy this honor.

The most important role in the wedding procession of Hakka daughters is the "wedding uncle", that is, the younger brother (usually the youngest brother) of the bride, who is an indispensable figure. If you have no younger brother, please go with your closest cousin. Send Uncle is a guest among the guests and a VIP among the VIPs. The groom should show special respect and enthusiasm to him and dare not neglect him. No matter how naughty, naughty or even rogue the "seeing off uncle" is, the groom and the man's family should be patient and polite, and dare not be vague or negligent. Whenever a banquet is held, as long as there is an uncle on each table of the Eight Immortals, they must sit on the table. This kind of cousin relationship is recognized by the whole society in Gannan Hakka area.

Hakka people are polite, hospitable, and impartial in everything. If one day someone points out the "rules", whether it is true or not, it is a very shameful thing. In this case, people first apologize again and again, and then reflect on themselves. If anything, they will change. If nothing, they will encourage them. There are absolutely no excuses around them to try to escape.

What Hakkas talk about every day is a "rule". Circle is not only the original form of things, but also contains the inner essence of things. Doing things in an orderly way and strictly following rules and routines are the remarkable characteristics of Hakkas. From an early age, he was taught that "thunder in the sky, uncle in the underground", which made Hakka people form a good habit of obeying the law.

Today, Hakka area is still densely populated, living environment is urgent, resources are very limited, and internal contradictions, disputes and conflicts are inevitable. However, Hakka people ignore the king's law, and the collective phenomenon of "playing tricks on ghosts" rarely occurs. For those who fight small battles, the village and clan elders will uphold justice, treat them with courtesy and move with emotion. Finally, they will promote reconciliation between the two sides according to rural rules and customs. The nature of the problem is serious, and the village rules and regulations cannot be mediated, and it shall be handed over to the state law enforcement agencies for handling and giving full assistance.

With people's pursuit of product quality getting higher and higher, the management idea of standardized operation has already penetrated into all walks of life. International standards, national standards, industry standards, safety standards, health standards and other "rules" are constantly improving and perfecting. The essence of standardized management is "to achieve unity by formulating, publishing and implementing standards", and the purpose of standardized management is "to obtain the best order and social benefits".

On the other hand, he neither worships Lei Gong nor his uncle and does whatever he wants. This kind of person is very comfortable, but he often hits the wall everywhere, and his nose is either blood or gray.