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Is puppy love really good for girls?

Puppy love is bad for girls, which will affect their study and life.

Speaking of puppy love, it is nothing new in today's life. Many girls will start puppy love in high school or even junior high school. Puppy love will not only affect students' academic performance, but also consume a lot of time and money, and even bring psychological harm to students. Parents often advise their children not to fall in love. So, what harm does puppy love do to girls?

Young girls are not financially independent. Even in college, it is difficult for us to be financially independent as adults. It is inevitable for girls to dress up in order to attract men's attention. where is the money to come from? It is difficult for ordinary pocket money to support the high cost of cosmetics, so such girls may embark on the road of crime because of lack of money. This is the reason why a large number of girls lose their feet. Even if they go to work, teenage girls will inevitably be cheated and even become prostitutes. Cause great harm to life and body and mind. Once puppy love happens, students' minds will not focus on their studies. All they think about is how to play with their boyfriends, where to play and how to play. They are also absent-minded in class, and whispering has become a common occurrence. This led to a decline in performance. For girls who fall in love too early, they are often in a trance and unable to control themselves, which has a more obvious impact on their grades. 3. Premature love may lead to early pregnancy. Among adolescent boys and girls, girls are more likely to fall in love, because girls' bodies mature earlier, and the hormones of youth may cause something unspeakable. In addition, puppy love children can't grasp a clear boundary, or they can't take effective safety measures. Just like a previous news, a girl came home after eight months of pregnancy. Puppy boy and girl are eager to be alone with their lover. In order to avoid people's eyes and ears, they often find some secluded alleys, have no acquaintances, rely on their lovers, and hate the interference of others. In the long run, this two-person world will gradually be divorced from the public, and they will rarely communicate with most students in the class, and gradually form a gap with the collective and classmates, pushing themselves to an isolated situation.

How to educate children about puppy love?

1, make friends with children

Such children basically lack the care and companionship of their parents. I will make friends with my children, discuss making friends together, and guide her to find out what her inner needs are for boys and what attracts her most. There is no blame, only encouragement and guidance. Often the more accused, the more rebellious, and then parents spend more time with her and play with what she likes.

2. Talk to your children about the future

Talk to your child about the future naturally, tell your child your expectations, "study hard and live well" and so on. Don't say puppy love is not good, just tell her that she is worried that the diversion may affect her life trajectory. Adolescent children are not suitable for strong opposition.

3. Give them enough love

At this age, love is just a game that imitates adults. Don't take it too seriously and don't ignore it. It is forbidden to cross the last bottom line between men and women. Puppy love is related to the lack of love and security in the family.

Generally speaking, parents are not in harmony, or the father is of low quality and has a big temper. He does not give his daughter enough fatherly love and is not enough to be a role model for his daughter. Also, the mother's emotions make children unable to understand and tolerate in the family, and it is easy for her daughter to fall in love early and go outside to find warmth.

The harm and serious consequences of girls' puppy love will affect their study, life and psychology to some extent. Minors should refuse puppy love and fall in love too early, which will bring serious problems to their later life.