"If parents live too long, children will live too short." Why do many people believe this fallacy?

There is a superstition that people who live hard live long. Some long-lived elderly people's partners died early, or their children died unexpectedly. Longevity extends the life span of their partners or children who died young.

Some of this thing really belongs to coincidence. Everyone has his own destiny. Some people die of illness, others are accidents and accidents. It really has nothing to do with the longevity of the elderly. Just a little superstitious and gossip.

The reason why the elderly live longer is that their children and grandchildren are filial, which makes the elderly feel good and not angry. A good attitude is the main reason for the elderly to live longer.

In fact, there is an old birthday girl at home, that is, Buddha. Filial piety will also accumulate happiness and longevity. It does not mean that the longevity of the elderly will have an impact on children and grandchildren.

Some parents are not good to their parents, and their parents need to be taken care of when they are sick. They are not busy before and after, and it is only superficial to serve them personally. However, the requirements for their children are very high. I have instilled the concept of filial piety in my children since I was a child, and I have consolidated it from time to time for fear that children will forget to be filial to themselves.

I think such parents will live long because they are selfish enough. And their children have been suppressed and controlled since childhood, and their hearts have been in a state of depression, and it is difficult for their bodies to get better.

As far as our village is concerned, an old neighbor lady lived to be nearly 90 years old. During this period, her eldest son died and her daughter-in-law had a stroke. Not counting, a grandson in his 40 s died one after another. Some people say that the old lady has killed the younger generation at that age. Finally, they passed away with their 60-year-old daughter. In fact, they all have a history of basic diseases and family hereditary diseases. It's really terrible to die at home without anyone noticing.

Parents' longevity is the evil of their children. People cherish their lives before they finish their life, but the life of those who live long is continued by the life of their children. Therefore, few children of those who live long can live longer than those who live long. China has a unique filial piety culture at work, but the filial piety of poor children is actually shortening their lives.

Generally, there are two kinds of long-lived old people, one is good personality and contentment; The other is selfish, strong, self-centered and doesn't feel sorry for others at all.

If the old man is too strong, he can live for a long time, but his children will be depressed for life. This is the real reason why parents live too long and children live too short.

A word of filial piety sends parents to the altar and makes their children miserable. Good people and bad people get old. Many selfish parents didn't give their children a happy childhood and life, but instead tortured their children even more when they were old, and their children's life was ruined by them.

This is also the case in my family. The 98-year-old mother-in-law died in a car accident 22 years ago, and the eldest son-in-law died of illness. More than three years ago, a grandson fell into a ditch and drowned. The year before last, her second-ranked male grandson fell ill and died. Another mother-in-law and two daughters died more than ten years before her death. An old man, his youngest son and daughter both died of illness.

These real things happened in virgin village. There is one thing in common. This kind of old man especially likes being a demon (Su Daqiang's character), and his children are not at ease.

Old people are considerate and reasonable, and live a long life. Every day is fooling around, playing dumb and hitting people, that is, the bad guys are old and the children suffer.

Female elderly people live longer, especially mothers who cover the sun at home are healthier and live longer. Children live in this depressed environment for a long time, depressed and sick! Don't persuade her to be kind without her suffering.

There is an old man at home, who is like a treasure. Long-lived elderly people are most important as long as they are healthy. Being able to eat, drink and sleep, and being clear-headed, is a lucky star for children!

It's hard to say for those who can't take care of themselves!

As the saying goes, there is no dutiful son before a long bed.

Children are old people and difficult to serve. I used to be like this. Mom died last year, and it's a bit too much to take care of her in the hospital. My hands and feet are not good, and my eyes are not good. One night I was so tired that I had to help my mother walk under the hospital! Because mom has dementia! I am in a good mood. Sometimes I yell. I am speechless! I was hospitalized for more than a month. I'm confused! Therefore, a long-lived old man must have the ability to take care of himself. Otherwise, it will drag down generations! I wish the elderly in the world health and happiness!

Who are many people you are talking about? It's yourself. This is complete nonsense. If you don't want to support your parents, don't support them Why find such a reason?

Everyone is born and raised by their parents. His father is old, and when he is old, his children should be rewarded by crows. No matter how tired they are, you can't fulfill their parents' kindness, because their kindness is like a mountain. I can't finish reporting for a lifetime.

At present, it doesn't matter how old parents are, and it doesn't matter if they give their children half a cent. This is entirely due to the virtues of their ancestors. As long as you help others and accumulate virtues and do good deeds in your last life, you will live longer than ordinary people and have more descendants. If you do all kinds of evil and nasty things that harm morality in your life, it is obvious that you will die, not to mention how many years you can live, nor how many generations you can live. Therefore, old people often say that so-and-so has a good virtue, which is a blessing in a previous life. From generation to generation, there are descendants, full of children and grandchildren, healthy and long life. In today's words, this is called heredity.

People often say that it is better to do it for a while than for a lifetime. At this time, it is only a matter of time. If you do good deeds all your life, his descendants will take over, do filial piety and do something suitable for human beings. So there are many people in his shop who have lived for a long time.

If you dislike your parents being too old, it will be bad for your children and grandchildren and affect your life span. what do you think? Your children and grandchildren also say that you are too old to live, which will affect their life span. Are you glad you should be buried alive as soon as possible? I see, those of you who have this idea are deceiving your teachers and destroying your ancestors. Learning classics will cost you your life and you will definitely not live to the age of your ancestors. Why? This is called deceiving the sky.

The above is only an answer to the question, and it doesn't really offend anyone. Please forgive me. [praying]

"Parents live too long, children will live short" is a fallacy, but many people think that it is because parents live too long that children will be very tired. Parents live too long, and if they can take care of themselves, it will increase the pressure on their children. They are busy taking care of their parents every day, and their spirits will be very tired. If they have more children, they can take turns to take care of them. If they have fewer children, they will really be exhausted. Parents live too long and children are tired, but it is unreasonable to say that parents live too long and children live too short. I have a 93-year-old uncle who is mentally retarded and can't take care of himself. His son is over 70 years old this year and his family's economic conditions are not good. His son has to take care of his old father while working. Do you think his cousin is tired?

In fact, the life span of children has little to do with the life span of parents. Studies by WHO institutions show that only 15% of life span is related to genetic inheritance. The rest are influenced by climate, medical care and social factors. , and more related to personal lifestyle (eating habits and emotional conditioning).

Our life span is related to our parents, which is a genetic gene, and individuals cannot choose. From the perspective of social factors, the comprehensive conditions such as medical conditions, humanistic quality and population composition in big cities determine that the average life expectancy is longer, but in fact most people can't choose their own living environment. Relatively speaking, centenarians are also very common in rural areas, because the living environment and climate are livable, they participate in labor all the year round, live a simple life, have a light diet and have a gentle temperament.

It can be seen that if you want to prolong your life, you must have a good lifestyle to support it. If you can develop good habits such as healthy diet, regular work and rest, persistent exercise and emotional stability in your life, you can live longer.

If the elderly are healthy, it is not an exaggeration to live to be a hundred years old. How can there be such a fallacy that children's lives are short?

If there are elderly people who have been paralyzed for more than ten years at home, you can let the questioner try. He has been paralyzed for more than ten years and is eighty or ninety years old, and the people who take care of him are over sixty years old. The more brothers, the better. At that time, it was not easy to have fewer children. Patients can't move, and they are always scolded for their bad temper. He gets enough sleep during the day, and he doesn't sleep at night and doesn't let her caregivers sleep. After a long day or two, all the good people are tired.

There is an old lady beside me who has been hemiplegic 15 years. Five years ago, her eldest daughter died of hypertensive cerebral hemorrhage, and her 59-year-old son died the year before last. He and his mother sleep in the same bed. Dawn's mother called her son convenient, but she couldn't wake up, so she called her grandson. At first glance, his father is out of breath!

The old man has lived for a long time, and the people who take care of him are under great pressure. If the body is overdrawn, it is easy to be in danger. Therefore, the elderly live long, and their children live short!

This is a folklore. People's life span is long and short. In the past, an old man lived to be 70 years old. Now, with the improvement of people's living standards and the progress of medicine, the average life expectancy of people is over 70 years old, and centenarians live long. If the elderly live to be 100 years old, children may not all live to be 100 years old, which will lead to parents being alive and children leaving first. It is a new society now. Don't believe those mysterious stories too much. The longevity of the elderly is the blessing of every child. As long as parents can live a long and healthy life, sons and grandchildren can work with peace of mind. Finally, I wish the elderly in the world health, happiness and longevity!

According to the present genetic theory, if parents live long, their children will usually live long.

But why is there such a fallacy that parents live too long and children live too short? Because not everyone is so filial, some people even regard their parents' longevity as their own burden.

In this case, if a family has a very long-lived old man, if one of the children and grandchildren of this family has an accident or died of illness, they will blame the accident on the longevity of the old man.

Even if this happens in the home of 100 elderly people, they will spread everywhere, and people will believe it if there are more people. Coupled with their subconscious desire for the elderly at home to leave early to reduce their burden.

In fact, there are still many such people until now. They don't know how to be grateful, and they never remember how much their parents have paid for themselves since childhood. As long as I have been scolded by my parents once or my requirements have not been met, I feel that my parents are incompetent and full of resentment.

Once parents are old and need to take care of themselves, they will be regarded as a burden immediately. Give some living expenses, pay medical bills, and even take care of yourself before the bed. I feel that I have been greatly wronged. There are really many such people.

These people forget that they will get old one day. You can see their attitudes towards their parents and you will follow them one day.

I understand all the reasons, but for some people, if they don't even think about tomorrow, how can they think about the day when they are old?

If parents live too long, children will live short. People who can say such things, or people who believe such things, actually subconsciously complain that their parents have lived too long. One day, their own children will have the same idea.

In real life, if we meet such people, we will try to stay away from them and not make friends with them. Because we know very well that people who don't even love their parents won't love others. Absolutely not worthy of communication, not worthy of trust.

I've heard this saying, which seems to be aimed at babies, such as grandma or grandpa, and grandparents live a long life. You can hear these messy words. I don't think there is any scientific basis. Whoever lives long and who lives short is arranged by God. Sow discord, family disputes, make trouble, it's all unintentional!

Tired, although living under one roof for four generations and living under one roof for five generations sounds very happy and looks very warm, I have to say that being the children of these old people is actually very hard, and there is great pressure both economically and physically. Imagine a 60-year-old man who has to take care of his 80-year-old parents, retired, has no retirement life of his own, and dares not to get sick or travel, because his elderly parents need you and have a sense of security, and he is an old man who needs care, but he is afraid of being old, tired and unable to correct his heart. After a long time, it is normal for his elderly parents to live longer. His parents' longevity is a happy thing.

This statement is unrealistic. It's just an ancient legend. The older generation is older and their life expectancy is shorter. Pure superstition. In the past, people ate less and drank less, lacked nutrition, and got sick without a hospital. People's life expectancy is very short Now, they have plenty of food and clothing, a sense of security for the elderly, developed medical standards, timely treatment of illness, and people's life expectancy has generally increased. Most of them lived to be 70 or 80 years old. An old man in our village is 96 years old and deaf.