A man meets a changeable woman.

When a man meets a changeable woman, if you want to win a man's heart, no matter how good you are, it is sometimes useless to invest in him. There are some "means" to get twice the result with half the effort. So what happens when a man meets a changeable woman?

When a man meets a changeable woman, 1, a changeable girl that most boys like, he won't get bored after a long time.

To be the apple of a man's eye, a woman needs not only beauty and sincerity, but also a little "means".

Therefore, in order to make men remember you, you have to learn some routines, become a "fairy" woman, and firmly enslave men's hearts.

"Fairy" women will give men a feeling of "at arm's length"

The fairy is beautiful and mysterious, which is a feeling of fear, like the ice in her hand will be lost at any time, and there is a sense of panic. Such a woman can greatly stimulate men's desire to conquer.

A fairy is like the scenery behind a veil. She has her own unique personality, which is unpredictable, but it is difficult to know her details through several contacts.

A goblin woman would never take the initiative to have that kind of relationship. Even if she has a crush on a man, she will only let him attack through various hints.

Therefore, if a woman wants to catch a man's heart, she should never take the initiative in the first step, but change from passive to active.

The fairy girl is very attractive.

Women, you have to understand that being with men is not as simple as possible. You should give men a changeable feeling, which can be soft and coquetry or sexy.

Men sometimes think you are cute and ignorant, sometimes you are mature and knowledgeable, and sometimes you are generous.

What men like most is freshness. The more invisible, the less fixed preferences, and the more curious men are.

Therefore, if a woman wants to be a leprechaun, she must have her own charm, that is, there are two sides and even many sides.

For example, every date will try different styles of clothes, which will make men's eyes have a bright feeling that people are visual animals.

In addition, there should be a reversal of personality, such as sometimes showing your gentle and shy side, sometimes showing your overbearing side, and being cheerful and lively, which will make men feel that you are as charming as a fickle leprechaun.

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I hope every woman can live a wonderful life.

I am not teaching you "bad", but I want to tell women that it is often not enough to have an insight into human nature, especially men. After all, the human heart has always been a routine.

A man meets an ever-changing woman. These behaviors of women are fatal temptations to men.

First, "learning to leave blank space" leaves unlimited imagination space for men.

The so-called "blank space" is a common technique in China's artistic creation, which means:

"In order to make the picture and composition of the whole work more harmonious and exquisite, the painter deliberately left a blank to give the viewer a certain imagination. Masters of art are often masters of blank space. "

The half-covered, half-exposed, half-empty and half-solid state of "the dragon sees the head but doesn't see the tail, and still hides half his face behind her guitar so that we can't see it" is often more intriguing, and its cleverness lies in shielding and leaving white space.

So should love.

I know a girl who looks average, but love is always not smooth.

Once I chatted with her, I found the crux of the problem. She just doesn't know how to hold back. When you meet a boy you like, it is easy to push too hard, love too deeply, and pour out your personal feelings. This is a big taboo in love.

Don't show all your brains to men like pouring beans.

Smart women always know how to hold back, only say seven points, and leave the remaining three points to each other to ponder and daydream.

The unpredictable fatal charm caters to men's greed for cheap.

For example, if you only say that you know a little musical instrument, when you meet a guitar or piano, you can play a song that surprises him gracefully and generously;

For example, I took you to an art exhibition, only to find that you actually have high attainments in art;

For example, you didn't mention how many dishes you can cook, and suddenly one day you surprised him by cooking, and he would find:

Wow, you are really a good cook.

All these will make men feel as if they have won the treasure.

There are also many cohabiting couples, married couples and girls who don't pay attention to their image. In order to show their intimacy with their husbands, it is easy not to regard themselves as "outsiders".

For example, don't close the door in the shower, don't close the door in the toilet, and so on. This will actually make men who are keen on pursuing novelty lose their sexual interest.

If you want to be attractive to men forever, you must be good at "leaving blank space".

For example, when you take a shower, you can say to him:

"Don't peek, say it again when closing the bathroom door, don't peek ~"

Take a shower and change clothes after you go in.

Be sure to stick to it and never show it to him. Using a soft coquetry tone can also provide emotional value well.

Sometimes, the more you stop men from doing something, the more interested they are, and that's how emotions arise.

So love needs to leave a little blank for men to imagine that you are not beautiful when you are seen by men.

Second, the secret of "expectation management" to make men love you more and more

There is a formula in psychology about getting along: the satisfaction of the other person = your actual performance-his expectation.

Therefore, if you want to improve your satisfaction in a man's heart, it is very important to manage his expectations.

There are two correct modes:

1, first meet the other party's small expectations, then let the other party have medium expectations, meet the other party's medium expectations, and then let the other party have big expectations;

2. First suppress and lower each other's expectations, and then in turn meet each other's small expectations and quickly mobilize each other's emotions.

In the cycle of expectation-satisfaction-reversal-satisfaction, his feelings for you gradually heat up, making him love you more and more.

For example, in daily life, we can tell each other:

Honey, I may not be able to go out with you because I have to work overtime at night.

But after 20 minutes, you will appear in his downstairs dressed beautifully, and the other party will feel surprised and happy, and the emotional value will soar instantly.

For another example, the man got a promotion and a raise. I'm glad to share this news with you and look forward to your cooking a delicious meal for him tonight.

Processing 1:

You said, "Wow, honey, you are amazing. Congratulations. "

In the evening, I personally cooked him a big meal to celebrate.

Such a reaction obviously can't stimulate mood swings.

Coping 2:

You said, "Great, congratulations to your husband."

In the evening, when a man asks you expectantly what big meal you cooked. You said:

"Oh, my husband, I'm sorry. I worked overtime temporarily today. I just got home and I'm exhausted. I'll take a break. Shall we go out to eat? "

At this time, men may be disappointed, but it is understandable because of your temporary work.

Then, you say:

"Dear, are you hungry? Why don't you go to the refrigerator to find something to eat first? "

The man opened the refrigerator, which was full of his favorite food and his dream gift, and a small note that read:

"My big baby is really something. Congratulations on your promotion. Love you! "

Is it much better to deal with 2 than 1? This way can arouse the ups and downs of men's emotions.

Third, "changeable woman" makes men fall in love with you again and again.

One of the secrets of long-term love is to remain "uncontrollable", which can mobilize men's desire and interest to conquer to the greatest extent.

A long-term marriage is not to love someone forever, but to fall in love with each other again and again.

If a man likes a certain type of woman again, he will get tired of it one day. You know, men are always pursuing novelty.

So turning around the core is to make him fall in love with you again. You have to change, you have to be out of control.

Smart women are always changing like the little foxes written by Pu Songling.

To hold a man's heart for a long time.

Of course, this change is not to change several sets of clothes and hairstyles a week, nor to lose your temper anytime and anywhere, but to learn to constantly change roles.

Specifically, in front of him, we should know how to change different identities and appear in front of him with different postures.

Sometimes I have the characteristics of a wife, gentle and considerate, independent and virtuous; Sometimes I have the characteristics of a daughter, which makes him coax, make him hurt and stimulate his desire for protection;

Sometimes he wants to be his mother, and when he is physically and mentally exhausted, it becomes his safe haven; Sometimes it has the lover characteristics of catwoman, and it is romantic and sexy from time to time.

Men are greedy animals, they want women to be gentle and lovely, they want women to be independent, and they want women to be amorous.

Most of the women who are held by men have the above characteristics: "daughter, wife, cat"

How to switch different characteristics, I explained in detail in a previous article, you can click on the blue word to view.

Remember, change is the last word, ever-changing women can make men want to stop.

A man meets a changeable woman. In men's minds, fickle women are the most charming.

Women's fickleness in marriage makes couples have "love"

A woman's fickleness does not mean that she is by no means a kind person. On the contrary, a woman's fickleness should be a mature woman's skill, a process that makes her husband fall in love with her deeply.

Love is something that needs a sense of ceremony, so that love can flow like running water.

For example, prepare a gift for each other on a special anniversary; Or prepare a surprise for each other on your birthday; Or at some point, take a trip to rekindle love in a strange environment.

In marriage, women are fickle. Cultivating love in different ways will increase the intimacy index between husband and wife, and men will also be inseparable from her warm love.

Pavarotti once sang in "Women are fickle": "Women are fickle, such as feathers floating in the wind, unpredictable voices and fickle thoughts."

A fickle woman in marriage knows how to run a marriage and grasp a man's heart so that he can't live without her.

Be fickle with yourself, dress yourself up and reduce aesthetic fatigue.

Men are curious, but it doesn't mean they don't like the new and hate the old. Women should live every new self and explore every different self.

Women are fickle about themselves. First of all, you should know how to dress up and reduce men's aesthetic fatigue.

If a woman gives birth to a child, there are a series of problems waiting for her, such as long spots, yellow-faced woman, bucket waist, out of shape, husband falling out of favor and so on.

In the end, it will only lead women to lose confidence more and more and indulge in denying themselves.

If a woman in marriage is not confident, why not try a different self? Learning to be "fickle" and show your different image beauty is actually to build a kind of self-confidence.

Women who are fickle deserve praise, because to some extent, they live their lives. Therefore, women should be fickle and live high in marriage, which makes it easier for men to live without you.

In marriage, those unchanging women will only make men dull.

Women make their character fickle, learn to be spoiled and show weakness.

Women can't lose themselves in love or marriage, and need good "change".

In marriage, women need to adjust the mode of getting along again and again through impetuousness, so as to achieve the purpose of managing marriage.

What we often say about mutual appreciation is that a certain quality of women attracts men.

In marriage, don't blindly please, don't be too strong, but learn to show weakness and coquetry. Through "fickle" ego, various "coquetry" and various "weakness", let men learn to pay.

Women should learn to be fickle and express their weakness. This can arouse the husband's desire for protection and maintain the long-term development of love.