What scenic spots and customs are there in Kunshan?

Kunshan famous scenic park Forest Park, Lin Ting Park (Yufeng Mountain) and Peony Garden. Huazang Temple Temple, Chongning Temple, Enbukuji. Ancient Town Zhouzhuang, Qiandeng, Jinxi and Justice. Resort Yangcheng Lake Resort, Dianshan Lake Resort. Marriage customs in Kunshan, Jiangsu; Ancient marriage etiquette. It refers to six kinds of etiquette from marriage negotiation to marriage completion, namely, accepting gifts, asking names, accepting gifts, inviting guests and welcoming them face to face. This wedding procedure,

Nacai: that is, the man's family asked the matchmaker to propose marriage to the woman's family, and the woman's family promised to propose marriage, and the man's family prepared gifts to propose marriage.

Ask the name: The man's family asked the matchmaker to ask the woman's name and date of birth.

Najib: That is, after the man's family has a good omen, he prepares a gift to inform the woman's family and decides to get married.

Sign: also known as Nabi, that is, the man's family gives the woman's family as a dowry.

Invitation date: the man chooses the wedding date, prepares gifts and informs the woman's family for approval.

Kissing: that is, the groom gets married at the woman's house.

The completion of the six rites only means the completion of the adult ceremony, and the "visiting aunt" must be completed the next day, that is, the adult ceremony; If the in-laws are deceased, they will visit them in the temple after March, which is called "See you at the temple fair".

At present, every ceremony in the wedding custom in Kunshan water town basically follows the "Six Rites", the backbone of the ancient marriage etiquette system in China.

The marriage customs of water towns in Kunshan area have distinct local characteristics: centered on Kunshan, they are spread orally in Wu dialect, which is continuous and original. The marriage custom in water village is a systematic custom, which runs through the "Six Rites", just like a complete life sitcom, with plots and contents and profound implications. The wedding custom in water towns is like a long poem, which not only records the details and process of the wedding, but also has lyrical romance. It integrates chasing children, praying for blessings and exorcism, and embodies the simple and happy ideal of the people in water towns. At the same time, the marriage customs in the water town is an encyclopedia reflecting the life in the water town, covering the historical origin, folk customs, social structure, religious beliefs, food, clothing, housing and transportation of the residents in the water town of Han nationality.

The wedding customs in water towns show the festive scenes in the marriage of Han men and women, and reflect the unique cultural and regional characteristics of rice farming in water towns in the south of the Yangtze River. In the wedding ceremony, there are customs of worshipping and offering tea. Because "every tea tree must have a son", using tea as a wedding custom prop means that "plants must have a son", which means the wish of having children and extending children. A few days before the wedding, the bride will "cry and marry". Even the mother and relatives will cry together. The sadder the cry, the better. They will also sing a long-standing crying wedding song. Lyrics are popular and easy to understand, and are generally passed down orally by the people. Folk customs regard whether a woman can sing a wedding song as one of the criteria to measure her virtue or laziness, cleverness or stupidity. The wedding songs, which are lyrical by crying and endorsed by songs, not only have the simple nostalgia of the traditional extended family for their families, but also express the inner feelings of the newlyweds when they get married. The custom of rocking the clippers and stopping relatives' boats not only reflects the unique boat culture of the water town, but also reflects the pity and respect of the family for the bride when she marries abroad.