Daughter-in-law's voice (production): Mom, stop it! Stop saying that a timely caesarean section is good for your life.

Is it better to have a natural delivery or a caesarean section? Both have advantages and disadvantages, and every pregnant woman will refer to the doctor's advice and her own ideas to make a decision.

It's just ... it's pregnant women who want to have children, but some elders, by virtue of their elders' identity, try to persuade or force pregnant women to have a caesarean section in the name of "choosing a good time to have children" and let the doctor operate a knife on her stomach. Why bother the strong (pregnant women and doctors)? Imagine: pregnant women have worked hard for ten months, and finally when the production is unloaded, they can't decide how to give birth. ! If so, which woman wants to have children?

Miya hereby appeals to everyone: Please respect the mode of delivery of pregnant women and babies!

From the moment I learned that I was pregnant until delivery, I never thought that "choosing the right time for caesarean section" would happen to me. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law came to tell me "choose the right time for caesarean section" when I was in labor.

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As soon as I listened, I began to play dumb. As long as my mother-in-law asks or mentions when caesarean section is the best, I will simply answer three words: "Give birth naturally! 」

At that time, I didn't want to be angry about having a baby (to be exact, I didn't have the strength to be angry), because I didn't want to talk because of the pain (every pregnant woman is different, I am sour, and I have no pain, and my whole body is sour to an indescribable extent). I didn't sleep well all night (I stayed in the health care room, my husband accompanied me in the first bed in front of my house, and I heard a loud snoring in the sixth bed by the window). I vomited at dinner last night, and today, too. Although I had a painless delivery needle, I didn't ask the anesthesiologist. Painless delivery can only eliminate the pain of childbirth, but can't eliminate the acid, so the symptoms of general discomfort continue.

The whole body discomfort has made me feel uncomfortable to the extreme, and I have to face the problem of "choosing the right time for caesarean section" put forward by my mother-in-law. I'm really going crazy! Don't discuss things with others when they are uncomfortable, it's asking for it!

If it weren't for politeness, I really wanted to save my response, and even had to hold back my anger and yell "Shut up! It's so noisy, it's all "A Za" and "Love Abuse" (Taiwanese)! My mind is full of questions: how long will it take to give birth? I can't hold on any longer. What should I do? Can I be born? Will it go well? Will it last long? Is it really painless to play painless? What if it hurts? ..... I noticed that my mother-in-law only mentioned it when her husband left to consult a nurse or doctor. As soon as her husband came back, she kept silent, probably for fear that her husband would support me. Seeing that the best time was about to pass at 1 p.m., my mother-in-law knew that there was no more, so she quit.

I know very well in my heart: "if we can give birth naturally, both mother and son will be fine;" However, if there is any situation that requires a full meal (if I can't give birth naturally, I will have a caesarean section), then I will give my child a caesarean section, and it will definitely not be for that unfounded superstition! After giving birth to the baby, I said to my husband, "Your mother came to visit early, and she picked a good time to persuade me to have a caesarean section. There's nothing wrong with me. The fetal position is normal. The doctor also said to give birth naturally, and I just want to give birth naturally! As far as I know, caesarean section requires anesthesia and is not good for the fetus. " My husband also said, "Ignore her.

Natural delivery and caesarean section

Natural delivery and caesarean section have their own advantages and disadvantages, and everyone has their own considerations.

The production process is full of uncertain factors, such as fetal distress, emergency of umbilical cord around the neck or dystocia that cannot be born. If it is scheduled to be delivered naturally, but it cannot be delivered, the doctor will judge whether to have a caesarean section. Every pregnant woman has her own considerations, good or bad. For example, a friend of mine decided to have a caesarean section. She's pregnant, if only she were happy!

Doesn't it matter if someone else's daughter?

Mother-in-law, please allow me to refute your proposal of "choosing a good time for caesarean section" as follows:

Pregnant woman/daughter-in-law:

Pregnancy is pregnancy! It is a pregnant woman who has experienced discomfort and prenatal examination! It's a pregnant woman giving birth!

Please also respect pregnant women's own decision on the mode of production!

It is difficult for a woman to conceive for ten months. During pregnancy, they will have morning sickness (some mothers even vomit), headache, bed rest, gastroesophageal reflux, pudendal pain, low back pain, rash or skin allergy, spasm, frequent urination and other uncomfortable symptoms. Although not every pregnant woman will have every symptom, she is pregnant and unwell, and even has to go to work, do housework or/and have a dozen times. It's just that the mother's hard pregnancy is for the safe and healthy birth of the child, not for the elders to make a decision, choose a good time and cut a knife in someone else's daughter's stomach!

Isn't someone else's daughter important? ! ? ! ? !

Grandma, you also gave birth to three children. The hardship of pregnancy and the pain of childbirth, "Did you forget, or are you afraid to remember?" 」……

Article 8 of China's Constitution clearly stipulates that "people's physical freedom is guaranteed".

"People's physical freedom should be guaranteed", which includes two levels: freedom of action and inviolability of the body. With reference to the fetal condition and the doctor's advice, I have decided to give birth naturally. My mother-in-law advised me to "choose a good time for caesarean section" and let me cut my stomach. This is against my personal will, so I have the right to refuse: I have the right to protect my body from infringement! My body, I make my own decisions!

Good times:

Did you invite Dr. Doctor Strange to see it? "Caesarean section in good time" is usually inseparable from good luck, good care and wealth at this auspicious time, but … you trust the fortune teller (who is it? Never heard of it! ), I believe Doctor Strange (this is more famous! See the future ending of 654.38+04 million in a few minutes.

The baby's own timing is the best! This is the first time in his/her life to make his/her own decision! The baby has been a "person" since it was born in my stomach. Please respect my child from this moment on, and don't disrespect him/her just because the child is not born yet! He may not be able to express his views in words yet, but he will express his wishes with actions-he can be born whenever he wants. As a mother, I believe and respect my baby's own choice!

Elders:

It is unreasonable to propose "regular caesarean section". Calling you an elder does not give you the right to make such unreasonable demands. It is impolite to oppress me to obey or to obey in the way of my elders.

It is not my duty as a daughter-in-law to obey the "timing of caesarean section".

Of course, elders can express your "hopes" and ideas, so I can "bear"-bear to listen to you, which is the limit of politeness I can do! But please be prepared to be rejected, because I can't "give up"-I won't let you decide, I will decide for myself! I can respect what you say, but I won't let you decide. After all, no one asked, and the other party must agree!

Daughter-in-law will only feel that she is regarded as a "production tool" when she hears the request of her elders for "regular caesarean section", and her heart is quite chilling! . It turns out that the grandson is what you want, and the daughter-in-law is not important at all! As the daughter-in-law of the younger generation, I don't want to be rude, but I also ask my elders to be reasonable. If you think your daughter-in-law is a mistress and her qualifications are not enough to discuss with you, please discuss with your peers-my parents!

Sometimes parents don't want to provoke disputes between the two sides, so it's not convenient to talk more, but how unwilling they are to take care of their raised daughter, but they have to get a knife under the control of others for no reason! When I told my parents about it, my dad waved his hand and said (in Taiwanese), "Ignore her. Why do you deserve that knife? It won't hurt? " ! Even my biological parents respect my opinion, and my mother-in-law is just my legal mother. You didn't give birth to me and raise me. Why should I obey or obey "timely caesarean section" for one of your superstitions?

Why do women embarrass women? Mother-in-law, why do you want my legal daughter (daughter-in-law's English) to "choose a good time for caesarean section"? Or does it matter because three grandchildren don't have your last name? But the baby I gave birth to is not your last name! ) or the mentality of "other people's daughters don't care"? !

Mother-in-law also makes you think about it: How do you feel if your daughter is given a caesarean section at a good time? Do you want your daughter to get that knife? "Even so, are you willing to bear it?" , than the heart!

In fact, whether you or your daughter have a natural delivery or a caesarean section has nothing to do with me. This is an independent event!

Summary:

To tell the truth, pregnancy and childbirth are hard enough, and they are a kind of "desperate" behavior, full of unknowns and variables. Really, don't embarrass and beat pregnant women.

It has been decided to give birth naturally, and to persuade or force caesarean section before delivery. Which pregnant woman can not be angry? ! ? ! Is it difficult to respect pregnant women? ! The baby is born to a pregnant woman, so the pregnant woman decides for herself! It is difficult for my daughter-in-law to "choose the timing of caesarean section", so I don't want to!

The same question, if "the timing of caesarean section is chosen, but the child is named after me", would you like it? No matter whose surname the child is, the child is born to me and is my child, so "whose surname is it" is not my concern. But you care, don't you? ! So, "Can you afford all this? I'm asking you, can you bear all this? Auntie " ...

Finally, watch the news about the problems caused by caesarean section at a good time.

1, Caesarean section is to save lives, not appointed by elders and fortune tellers! Doctor's painful confession exposes obstetrics and gynecology chaos

2. When choosing caesarean section, will the baby's horoscope be accurate?

3. Be sure to perform laparotomy at 04: 18 in the morning! Young women believe in fortune tellers ... The doctor is dumbfounded: Will an emperor really be born?

4, the mother-in-law forcibly "see the time to cut the abdomen"! The pregnant mother's placenta peeled off early and bled heavily, and her parents' father was so angry that he punched: My daughter, you take care of sand X!

5, mother and child safety is success, no one pays attention to the mother's injury during childbirth.