I am the daughter of1982 February 16 and the male of1981September 23rd. Can we be together in the future?

My cousin and his wife look alike, but the family disagreed and finally got married. Now they have a son and are very happy. Believe in love, not superstition. If we are not in a city, we can try to go to a city. My husband and I were not in the same city before, but later we got together.