Why are people selfish? How to make people happy to care about others?

Why are people selfish? What environment do you live in?

Sometimes, if not selfish.

The property of wives, sons and daughters will be emptied. How can people care about others happily? Most people can do it if they are willing to care about others.

But I'm afraid I may not be able to help physically.

Do your best.

Why are people selfish? Selfishness is human nature! If people are not selfish

There must be something wrong with that 1. If someone says he is not selfish.

It is out of the question.

Let's just say he's not that selfish. How can people care about others happily? This is really difficult.

The first is your own feelings.

The second is that you care more about him.

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Heaven and hell grab vegetables, grab shoulders and drive. A good man who has done countless good deeds in his life met an angel after his death. Tell him, "I can grant you a wish before you die." "The great Goodman said," I don't have any wishes. But if you must make me realize a wish, then I want to see what heaven and hell are like. Then can you show me around these two places? The angel said, "no problem, because you are going to heaven, so I will take you to hell first." The good man followed the angel to hell, just at dinner time. Someone arranged a big dining table filled with rich food for people in hell to eat. " Life in hell looks good! Not as bad as I thought! "The good man asked the angel doubtfully. The angel smiled and didn't answer. After a while, it was time for dinner. I saw a group of bony and hungry ghosts sitting at the dining table. The tableware in everyone's hand is a fork dozens of feet long. Watching them try to eat vegetables with forks in their hands. But because the fork is too long, I can hardly eat. A meal makes everyone sad. Later, they went to heaven, and it was time for dinner. The great Goodman found that there is no difference between heaven and hell: the same table is full of delicious food, and everyone uses a fork dozens of feet long. But the difference is that after you fork up the dishes, you don't send them to your mouth, but feed them to the people around you. And the people around him also fork vegetables to feed him. A meal makes everyone happy. So this is the difference between heaven and hell. Another similar story: there is a group of people whose backs itch and hurt every day when they are fixed. Because these people can only stretch forward, not scratch. Therefore, it is like living in hell for them to itch every day. Actually, these people don't have to suffer from this itch. As long as everyone forms a circle and grabs the back of the previous person to stop itching, it won't hurt as much as before! What these two stories tell us is: (although a little old-fashioned, it is true) if we cooperate with each other, then now it is heaven (even if it is not heaven, hell is no longer hell); On the other hand, if everyone is selfish, it is no different from hell. This reminds me of the domestic tour in previous years: when I arrived at my hometown, a large number of tourists returned to my hometown during the Chinese New Year, not only was it hard to find a room, but it was also difficult to enter my hometown. At this time, the original one-lane automatically becomes two lanes, because some speculative drivers walk directly on the shoulder (even in a wider section, there is a one-lane road outside the shoulder). Usually hard work is to drive in line; For vehicles on the shoulder, dare to be angry and dare not speak; Of course, some drivers saw that the speed of the shoulder was faster, so they switched to the shoulder and thought, Anyway, everyone will go, and I won't go without going. If the road is wide enough, in addition to the main lane, it can also accommodate the vehicles on the shoulders, and that's it. The problem is that these vehicles on the road shoulder will return to the main lane after driving for a while. In this way, driving on the shoulder is tantamount to cutting in line, which seriously affects the rights and interests of vehicles waiting in line, and sometimes even causes danger because of overtaking and improper lane change. Losing time and not saying it is more likely to cause life danger. Therefore, on the one hand, driving the shoulder is immoral, on the other hand, it is not safe. Of course, it may be "beneficial" in some aspects, but it is not "absolutely" beneficial. Since driving on the shoulder is immoral and dangerous, why don't we all condemn it? Maybe on the one hand, I dare not, on the other hand, I can't. The reason why I dare not is because I don't want to bear the risks that may be incurred by public criticism. Maybe the other side is the underworld boss, maybe the other side is the Taurus helmsman, maybe not so much, maybe, just one ideal is enough: I can't beat the other side! We can't just because we sometimes want to walk on our shoulders, just as we don't condemn people who turn right at red lights, because we sometimes do it ourselves. Of course, there are also many people who don't follow their own words and deeds: there are indeed people who condemn others and don't obey the traffic rules themselves (to some extent, I think these people belong to a kind of "Oedipus king": he doesn't know he is the murderer, but 123 condemns the murderer). However, most people don't consciously become people who will be condemned by themselves, so we will tolerate people who walk on our shoulders because we may make mistakes ourselves. However, during this trip, in the traffic jam, I saw a courageous driver M (his car number is AM-XXX, which can be seen from the car model that he is a famous European car and belongs to the same town as my car AM-XXXX), and he did something I dare not do: just when some cars began to get tired of traffic jams and began to step onto the kerbs one after another, this M brother wanted to. In this way, vehicles driving on the shoulder have to return to the main line. I drove behind m and two other cars; I'm sure of their courage, but I don't want to drive across the main line and the shoulder at the same time like them (is their behavior immoral, too? In order to stop others from being immoral, can you use this method yourself? To tell the truth, I sympathize with them, but I can't do it myself. What I can do is to help them by ethical means: because these three cars span two lanes, they can prevent speculative vehicles from overtaking from the right shoulder, but it also causes their left door to open wide, and other cars can overtake from the left main lane, and then these three cars will be forced to the shoulder; If you are really forced to the shoulder, then these three cars are like dumb people eating Huanglian. So I helped these three cars guard the left door to prevent other cars from overtaking from the left. On the one hand, I'm still walking in my driveway, on the other hand, I can help them. So I drove all the way back to my hometown. My feeling is: in fact, as long as we put aside selfishness and keep order, we can reach our destination safely together, although the speed is slow.