How to cultivate healthy personality from the film Green Tea?

Psychoanalysis of the film "Green Tea" Green tea is a small green seedling that grows in the heart and has a fragrance. This little green seedling is full of people's hopes and longings for a beautiful and complete love.

The heroine is a master student in literature and has eyes. She looks stiff and stiff, and seldom sees expression on her face. Only those eyes sparkled with her desire for emotion. She always goes on blind dates. She is eager to get married. She met many people in succession. Every time she met someone, she always asked for a cup of green tea. She said that she has a girlfriend, and that girl will use green tea to tell her fortune, saying that green leaves brewed with water can predict the fate of love. After a meeting, she met the hero. The hero is a man who thinks he knows a lot about women. After just experiencing emotional setbacks, he threw himself into this relationship again. The scene when they first met was very interesting. In a hall, there are two women, one dressed brightly and the other dressed simply. Chen Mingliang, the hero, ran directly to the beautifully dressed woman and shouted the name of Wu Fang, the heroine. At this moment, the heroine called him angrily. The meeting between the two people didn't go well. After a brief talk with him, Wu Fang put down his tea money and left. Chen Mingliang chased her out and joked that she wanted a room. From then on, Chen Mingliang began to pursue Wu Fang reluctantly, followed her on blind dates, followed her to school, and watched Wu Fang's blind dates fail again and again. Chen Mingliang asked to be friends with Wu Fang and chat with Wu Fang, but failed. However, in his contact with Wu Fang, he found that Wu Fang had three kinds of personality split. From then on, he began to explore and pursue love.

Wu Fang always used the third person to describe a girl friend's childhood family, saying that the girl lived in an unhappy and loveless family, her mother made amends for the deceased in the crematorium, and the girl's father suffered from schizophrenia. After learning about her real job, she kept saying that her wife wanted to poison her and abuse her at home. She can't stand this torture and wants to divorce him. He said that if she divorced, she would cut off her hand. Unbearable, she killed her husband. Gloves are mentioned many times in Wu Fang's description. Wu Fang's story about his childhood is full of horror and cruelty.

Because the memory of childhood is so horrible, she has suppressed the content to the unconscious process, so she always describes it in the third person. Unfortunately, the loveless childhood hindered the heroine's emotional expression, and now she can't communicate with people normally, and naturally she can't find a lover without particularly close friends. Her inner world is very eager for a happy and warm family, but she can't find it herself, because she was never loved in her childhood, and she doesn't know how to give love and how to communicate with men. She can only meet men through blind dates.

Because the mental trauma has not fully recovered, she can't stand the inner pain, which is one of the reasons why she can't take the initiative to find love in life. She is eager to find complete true love in her new love life.

The split personality of the heroine, the symbol of love and sexual separation, the primitive personality symbolized by simple representativeness and physiological instinct impulse-ID: The split personality of the heroine Lang Lang is a beautiful and lively woman who plays the piano at night. She is scantily clad and brightly dressed. She is good at understanding men's inner world, chatting with men and comforting those men who are hurt by feelings. She regards sex as a business transaction, and has not really devoted herself to feelings and love. Lang Lang thinks that his job is happy and profitable.

In this feeling of being pursued by many men, she also got a psychological satisfaction. She has a feeling of being loved and valued. This feeling also made her forget the cold and lonely shadow of her childhood. She chose this kind of night work, which not only satisfied her physical needs, but also satisfied the psychological blank that was neglected in her childhood. And she can get a lot of money, and she can get material rewards.

Therefore, from the psychological point of view, a girl who suffered from the lack of love and loneliness in her childhood is faced with the impact of physiological impulses when she is physically mature in adulthood. In order to make up for the psychological feelings of being loved, concerned and valued in childhood, the gap in her spiritual feelings needs to be filled with the feeling of love. Even if those men pursue her for sexual enjoyment, she finds the feeling of being valued in the process of sexual communication.

Her association with all kinds of men, on the one hand, eliminated her mother's repressed sexual desire in childhood. After the mother can't get her father's love, she hopes to start a new love, but this desire is suppressed. She can only spend every day's hardships under the torture of a man's darkness and indifference, live a life without love and hope, and finally feel relieved after she killed her husband.

However, Lang Lang associates with all kinds of men every day. In this behavior, she completely relieves the depression and bondage that her mother once suffered. She seems to be declaring that I need freedom, I want everything I want, I don't want to be bound by a man, and I won't be bound by any man. And she boldly pursues sexual pleasure and material enjoyment. She is no longer emotionally involved in this work of contacting men. She seems to be proving to her mother that she should get rid of her mother's unfree life completely. Therefore, Lang Lang is a basic part of the heroine's original personality and represents her id. The id pursues happiness, so she forgets any painful and unpleasant memories of her childhood. Show a happy and free Wu Fang girl, who was not bound and depressed in her childhood.

The representative of superego image: female master of literature, with strict dress and indifferent expression. Find your life partner through ancient and traditional blind date. She represents the superego component of personality, so she must abide by the moral tradition and not over express her feelings. The image of the heroine controlled by this powerful superego first appeared in the film, and this personality component also represents the basic component of Wu Fang's personality.

Love makes the heroine's spiritual world completely integrated-return to her true self. The hero's love makes Wu Fang's spirit integrate and return to the real world. Her id and superego merge together, and she becomes a complete woman, a woman whose desire for sex and love is completely integrated, and a woman who can meet her psychological and physical needs in a normal social and moral way.

In the film, the hero's desire for mysterious exploration-arousing the desire for conquest and sympathy-produces love sadness and difficulties, and blends his infinite life energy with love.

The protagonist's appearance from the beginning of the film shows that he is a man who is more interested in sex than love. Just like Lin Yutang said, "Men love sex", he is more interested in women with gorgeous clothes. His past love failure also shows his cynical attitude. He is a man with strong feelings, but he can't really love a woman, that is to say, he is a man with strong life energy, but he can't combine his passion for life with his ability to love.

His ability to love is only shown in the form of a primitive vitality, but he doesn't know how to love a woman.

It is Wu Fang's persistent pursuit of complete love that triggered his potential love ability, which is also one of the important reasons for his infatuation with Wu Fang.

Every time Wu Fang comes into contact with a man, she reveals her free eyes, mysterious and indifferent breath, which makes the men who come into contact with her afraid to approach and can't understand. Only Chen Mingliang, a man who thinks he knows a lot about women, was inspired by her mystery to explore and conquer. As a man, all his energy began to show a primitive desire to conquer. This woman who longs for complete love has the expectation of love that he doesn't have in his mind.

He said to Wu Fang, let's just make friends and chat, but Wu Fang refused. Wu Fang wants a formal and secure relationship between men and women. Wu Fang, as an object, only inspired Chen Mingliang's inner love instinct.

Wu Fang's description of childhood is full of gloom, death, sadness and horror. Chen Mingliang is such a dynamic person. He is an explorer and a soldier. His vibrant light illuminates Wu Fang's gloomy childhood. His infinite vitality, as an energy, is warming Wu Fang's cold heart. In silence and depression, Wu Fang felt the care and attention of men, which he had never felt before.

The appearance of Lang Lang filled Chen Mingliang's weakness and comforted Chen Mingliang when he was in difficulties and pain. When he failed in his pursuit of Wu Fang, he got comfort and encouragement from Lang Lang. Lang Lang is so enthusiastic that he is puzzled. But such a complicated mystery aroused his desire to fight hard. He has been looking for common ground between Lang Lang and Wu Fang, from gloves to hating men for beating women. Fascinated by the exploration of a fan, he has unconsciously fallen in love with the object he wants to pursue. Only a woman like Wu Fang can satisfy all the psychological desires in Chen Mingliang's heart and turn his vitality into the form of love.