Fortune-telling in Qingbei _ Fortune-telling in Tsinghua Peking University

Changchang, a college classmate, posted some photos of her going out to play in a group of our good friends.

Two days ago, she and her mother went to Korea. On this trip to Xiamen, she went alone with her bag on her back. By the time I struggled with my life and my choices, she had finished a gorgeous turn and began to enjoy life.

In the photo, she stood by the sea with her back to the sunset, her hair flying in the wind, wearing beautiful clothes and a beautiful figure. She is particularly beautiful in the backlight.

But who would have thought that two years ago, she was still working as a small accountant in a power plant in Inner Mongolia, earning 2,000 yuan a month. Every day, like the workers in the factory, she wears fat blue coarse work clothes and lives a life of going far away to buy a fruit every day.

Now, she is a master student at the Central University of Finance and Economics. When interviewing a securities company, she beat many graduates from Qingbei and got an internship in the investment banking department.

All this stems from the fact that she didn't give herself a choice to go backwards, and she was eager to escape from the life she didn't like.

We were classmates in college, and our dormitory lived next door, so we naturally walked closer.

During her four years in college, she lived an ordinary life like us ordinary girls, shopping, watching American TV shows, skipping classes occasionally, worrying about CET-4 and CET-6, and staying up late for the final exam. As a group secretary, she helped everyone convey a message.

No experience of campus Daniel, no experience of export internship. College is too easy, and there is no postgraduate entrance examination. In addition, that year was called the "hardest employment season" in history. By the time she started looking for a job, it was a little late and she interviewed many people, but none of them succeeded. Later, the family finally found someone to help her find a job as a small accountant in an electric power enterprise.

The electric power enterprise is a good enterprise, state-owned and stable, but it will take several years to be transferred back to this city in a suburb of Inner Mongolia. Although changchang is not a rich second generation, his family can still reach a well-off level. She really doesn't want to go to that kind of hard place where sand and stones fly every day and no relatives and friends have any.

But there is no way. Many times in life, your final choice is actually no choice. This was the case in Changchang at that time. The school urged the three parties to sign the contract. If we refuse this job again, we will really lose our jobs after graduation.

In this way, she had no choice but to sign a contract, and she took a train for more than ten hours and started her life in the suburbs of Inner Mongolia.

Changchang, who started working, was not happy at all. Majors like ours are mostly signed by banks or accounting firms, which is very good for accounting graduates. Everyone was on the same starting line. As a result, everyone signed a better job than her. Changchang said that at that time, compared with his own work, he was really unhappy every day.

Her working environment is in a factory, and she has to wear the same work clothes as the workers every day, which is a particularly big test for her who loves beauty.

Most of the accountants in the factory are over 35 years old. They are content with the status quo and basically want to rely on this unit to provide for the elderly. Changchang couldn't get a word in.

There are few recreational measures around work, and even going to a supermarket has to walk more than ten miles. Changchang jokingly told us that two thousand dollars can't be spent!

If I hadn't heard later that there had been some policy changes at work, I might not be able to return to this city for a while, so changchang might have been working in such an environment.

At this time, she suddenly began to despair about the future. She thinks she is only 24 years old. Can she live like this all her life? In this suburb, you've just been fooling around all your life?

Changchang obviously heard her inner voice screaming and saying "No". She knows that the life she wants is particularly far away, but the present state is her least favorite state of life.

Sometimes, if you work hard, you may not be able to live an ideal life, but you can get rid of the life you hate.

Changchang decided to try to change this state, quit his job and concentrate on going home to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination.

This process is very difficult.

The family didn't understand and thought it was a very stable job. It is too risky to give up such an iron rice bowl to take an examination of a graduate student who may not have been admitted yet.

The voices of people around you are also very loud. Our undergraduate school ranks at the bottom of 2 1 1, and changchang's undergraduate performance is not high, but this time we set our goal so high-Central University of Finance and Economics, and everyone thinks we can't get in.

By this time, Changchang was completely the last stop. She said she was just an idea. Now that you have chosen, you should choose a better one. What if she is admitted? What motivates her to work hard is that she doesn't want to live the same life as before.

She really works harder than ever before to get rid of the life of eating and dying, because she has no choice. Starting from preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, get up at 6 o'clock every day and go to the library rain or shine; She will never bring her mobile phone, and she can hardly be found during the day. She will study in the study room until 10. In the middle, I refused anyone's invitation to go shopping and watch movies. Even WeChat was uninstalled, and I didn't brush my circle of friends or watch Weibo.

After working hard for more than half a year, she never slacked off, nor did she consider what to do if she failed the exam. Like a small train full of power, she kept running forward just to leave such a bad day far behind.

Maybe after real efforts, life will be as smooth as hanging, and God seems to have a special preference for such children.

Graduate students from changchang were admitted to the accounting major of Central University of Finance and Economics. Later, the investment banking department of a securities company recruited graduate students. She submitted her resume on the last day of the online application deadline and entered the interview. Later, because of her confident performance, she defeated many graduates from Qingbei and passed the interview smoothly.

Now, I can finally see that her circle of friends is not taking some selfies and self-deprecating words in overalls, but photos of various company parties and their own travels. I don't know if this is the life state she wants, but I clearly know that she has tried to stay away from the life circle she particularly hates.

However, not all people have her courage and courage.

How many people, like me, complain about my colleagues and leaders every day, especially hate the current state of life, but when I really want to change this state, I think twice before acting, fearing the east and the west.

I want to take the postgraduate exam, but I am afraid that I will quit my job and have no financial resources, so I will not be admitted in the end; If you want to change your job in a city, you are afraid to start all over again, and you should start from the bottom; I want to go to a big city, but I'm afraid I can't afford it, and I'm far from home, but I'm not reconciled to the mediocre life in a small city; Want to go abroad and have no money; I want to study, but I don't have time. naked resignation is ready and afraid of failure ...

In this world, besides buying lottery tickets, how can we know the result quickly at a very low cost of trial and error?

Who really makes decisions and choices, but has never experienced 18 days of thunder and nine fires in his heart?

If you haven't made a choice and tried to get rid of the status quo, it's not that your ideal life is not attractive enough for you, but that you can tolerate the status quo.

If you can bear it, why complain? You are so sad and confused!

In What's Possible in Your Life, the classic teacher preached that when faced with a problem, people usually have the following states: facing the problem-safety-pursuing perfection-obsessing about not choosing-procrastinating-things get worse (you must choose one or neither)-inferiority complex-even more unsafe.

Unable to choose is nothing more than fear of uncertainty after choice, because people hope that giving up so many choices will bring better and better results. In this world, even a fortune teller can't guarantee that the result you choose will be good.

So many people struggle, hesitate, continue to live a life they don't like, and mix with each other.

If you really want to get rid of this state, you must make a radical decision for yourself. I just told myself that I really don't want to do this job again. If you continue to do it, you may be depressed, so you dare to resign boldly.

I was very unhappy now. Even if the final result proves that I made the wrong choice, I am still as unhappy as I am now! What if, by chance, the choice is right?

I don't know if I can live the life I want, but what makes me go forward without looking back is that I really don't want to live like this anymore.

No one can say whether the choice is right or not, and it is useless to consult many people. The key lies in your heart. There is a voice in your heart telling yourself that you want to go out and see the outside world, even if others advise you to be stable again, you don't want to.

Even if you listen to the opinions of the people around you and live a normal life, you will not be happy. You may regret it all your life in an ordinary life.

Choose your own heart, at least you will regret it for a while at worst.

If you don't like the present state, try to change it and live with negative energy every day. No one will like it.

Besides, many people don't really do anything to change themselves or their environment. Most people complain, weigh, compromise and waste their time until there is no choice at all.

I'm trying to adapt to this environment and life, but more and more I find that I hate this state. I can't adapt, so I'm trying to leave here just to stay away from those people I can't get used to and can't do.

Sometimes when you don't know why you are struggling, look around and tell yourself that only by working hard can you leave here smartly.

Since you can't change the world, change yourself.