What do you mean my husband changed my name?

"My husband's family changed your name" may be: they think your name affects family harmony; Or, it conflicts with your husband's name

My colleague encountered this embarrassment:

Colleagues get married very late, about 40 years old, and the elderly at home are all around 70 years old. There is indeed a generation gap in communication together. However, colleagues are trying to get along with them.

Once her mother-in-law called her to her side and said, "Xiaomi, your name conflicts with Xiaogang's. We'll find someone to calculate and give you a suitable name. " what do you think? "My colleague was speechless, because she didn't expect the elderly at home to have such an idea, so she directly denied it at that time.

Yes, your situation may be similar to that of my colleagues, and it is more because the elderly have concerns that they have such thoughts. You can discuss with the elderly and call them by their nicknames. Try not to make a fuss. After all, the name is given by parents, and you should also consider their feelings.