How does a child's cowardice change his character?

Understand the reason why my son is weak.

Some children themselves are not that kind of particularly timid character, but because of something later, or because they have not received the correct education method, so they are timid and cowardly. However, some children seem to be born weak. No matter how adults guide education, they are still timid about everything, as if they were born with a lack of self-confidence. And some children's cowardice is precisely caused by their sensitivity. So don't rush to change your child, first look at the root of your child's cowardice.

Give the child a brave example.

All children will have a "heroic dream", especially boys, who have an inexplicable affection and worship for heroes. There is a timid boy at home, so parents need not be too nervous. Almost every child has a timid side, but yours is more obvious. There are bound to be brave representatives around you, including children's classmates or story characters in the book. Then, find a hero that children can identify with, as an example for children to learn to be brave, and tell them some brave and confident stories from time to time, so that children can admire "heroes" from the heart, and then they will learn subconsciously.

Let children learn to contact this society by themselves every day.

This step looks very atmospheric. In fact, in a popular way, it is to let children learn to contact unfamiliar things every day, such as unfamiliar children, such as strangers met on the street. Let him learn to greet others, or say hello. For example, if you go out with your children and see a neighbor who is not very familiar with you, quickly encourage your children to say hello. Children may resist at first, but with your encouragement, they will definitely accept it. After a long time, children are naturally less afraid of contacting strangers or things.

Let the children "help" you do some adult things.

This is easy to understand, that is what you adults should do, and let your children do something for you appropriately. Let me give you the simplest example. When my baby was young, as long as I took him shopping and walked to the cashier, I would definitely pick him up and ask him how much money he had, and then ask him to give it to the cashier and let him say thank you and goodbye. Or take an item and let the baby ask the salesman the price of that item. Don't underestimate these behaviors, it really exercises children's courage.

Give children a free space to play.

Why are boys weak? This is related to the protection of parents or relatives around them. In other words, there have been more families with two children in recent years. In those years, most families had only one child except twins. A child, like a little pimple, is cared for, loved and protected by relatives around him, and is not disturbed by a little bit. The child has no chance to contact strange things at all. Once he meets strange people and things, it is strange that the child is not timid. Therefore, when you feel that the boys at home are timid, you must remember to give your children a free space and let them do what they can.

Encourage children to express themselves bravely.

There is a kind of child called Laifeng, saying that the more people there are, the more children will love to express themselves. Whether visiting relatives at home or taking children out to crowded places, as long as children are in the crowd, they will try their best to show themselves and let others pay attention to them. And timid children, what they lack is precisely this kind of madness. Especially for some boys, family members require boys to be calm and steady, and they will be proud of their "clever" or so-called calm performance in front of outsiders. Moreover, after a long time, it is bound to force boys to converge their nature and become the timid child who can't say anything and dare not express his thoughts. So parents must remember, don't be afraid of boys being crazy, and encourage them to express themselves bravely, no matter how many people are around.

Parents lead by example.

Some boys are timid and really don't blame the children themselves. They are completely educated by their parents. Some children's parents are timid, cautious and cowardly, so they think cowardice is not a shortcoming, but a so-called caution, caution, carefulness or seriousness. Then you will certainly take such education to your children, and then boys will become timid. Who do you blame? Remember, a child's first and most important teacher is his parents. As parents, we must lead by example, be a brave and sunny adult and set a good example for our children.

Give children a chance to make mistakes.

Don't doubt that Dudu didn't make a mistake, which really gave the child a chance to make a mistake. Nowadays, many parents are very careful in educating their children, and every move is carried out in strict accordance with the rules and regulations. I hate that I can't educate my children with textbooks from the moment they are born and keep them in a template. Resolutely do not allow children to make mistakes. Once the child fails to do as required, parents will take turns to educate and punish the child. Under such strict discipline, children will inevitably face everything with trepidation. For a child who is always jittery and cautious, he will be afraid of making mistakes.