What does the fortune teller mean by asking me to find a hard husband?

Youchong express pet consignment: explain your horoscope, which will hurt the official.

If you hurt an official, it means you will blame your husband. If your husband's life is not hard, he will be blamed.

Life is hard (that is, the eight characters are big and the proportion is high). If you can't move, your husband will.

If you are safe, your life will be guaranteed.