How do I know if I have met true love?

A long time ago, love became people's wish, and the poet Bai Juyi wrote, "We want two birds to be one, fly in heaven, grow together on the earth, and have two branches in one tree." Reveal the desire of young men and women for love.

Each of us longs for love, but when we meet love, we begin to shrink back, because we are afraid that we will not meet a lover, because we are afraid that we will waste years and eventually leave with a wound.

So, what kind of opposite sex we meet is our destiny takes a hand's marriage and the right person?

Heartbeat is an instant thing, and it often takes a long time to like and love. When you feel your heartbeat and always think of each other inadvertently, you almost like each other, and love means planning to have each other in the future.

We will meet all kinds of people, maybe have a few relationships, maybe love the wrong people, but there is only one person who can really accompany you to the end, and the rest are passers-by.

The people who can join hands with you in the future may not be so excellent, but they will definitely bring you some special feelings.

For example, you trust each other, depend on each other, and long for each other's company, but you have always been a very independent person before meeting each other, insisting on carrying everything by yourself.

For example, when you are with each other, you will feel very comfortable and relaxed. You can be yourself. Your mood depends on your mood.

Whether it is a secret love buried in the bottom of my heart when I was young or a vigorous love in adulthood, the final loss is for growth, but such growth makes some people unwilling, so that the past has become a regret buried in my heart, but in fact many people mistakenly think it is love.

Teacher Yi Shu once said, "True love makes people happy. If you feel pain, you must have made a mistake and need to end it in time and start again. "

Wishful thinking, that is not love; It is not love that hurts each other; Love is the only thing that can make the other person happy. Even after twists and turns, it will eventually turn into a positive result.

In fact, only when you meet the right person can you find happiness in a dull life. And when you have these two characteristics, it means that you have met the right person.

First, you trust and depend on him and long for his company.

Before you meet that person, you are used to loneliness, to facing everything alone, and to facing the world with thorns all over your body. Until one day, you meet that person, slowly take off your armor, slowly open your heart, and slowly start to rely on him. If you meet such a person, you have met the right person.

Meeting the right person will give you a sense of trust in the process of getting along, so you are willing to share a lot about yourself, happy, sad, life and career. In a word, in your opinion, that person is like an accident in your life, which makes you change a lot on your own initiative and makes you rely on each other.

Maybe you have met many people you can talk to and many people who have helped you in the past. But it's still hard for you to put down all your defenses for one of them, and you still don't want to bother others when you encounter problems.

Maybe you are used to taking on all the problems by yourself, because you know that the so-called sense of security can only be in your own hands. Until one day, you meet that person, and you find that some people can also reassure you and make you rely on each other.

In the emotional world, when you care about a person, the most obvious feature is that you start to be emotional, you break certain principles for the other person, you are eager for the other person's company, and even use various reasons to retain the other person.

And when you begin to desire and take the initiative to ask for each other's warmth, this is the trust and dependence that people who meet the right person will show.

If you are always uneasy when you are with your partner, you even doubt his love for you because of his words, deeds and attitude towards you, so that you will suffer from loss in that relationship. If you are such a man, it is obvious that he is not the right person for you.

Meeting the right person can not only make your heart move, but also make you feel at ease. There is no denying that maybe the wrong person you met really loves you, but he can't give you peace of mind. Such a person can't be regarded as a good object after all, because marriage is not maintained by love.

When you meet the right person, he will tell you with practical actions that he only has eyes for you, and he will consider things for you from your perspective. Being with such a man will make you more confident.

The most annoying thing in love is cheating. When a man begins to weave your love with lies, this relationship has come to an end.

When you meet the right person, he may lie to you, but those are rare white lies, and white lies reveal deeper love.

Second, you will feel very comfortable and relaxed with each other.

If the person you are with will always make a lot of demands on you, you will always please him carefully to protect this relationship, and he will squander your love and turn a blind eye to your efforts.

Being with such a man will only make you feel particularly tired, because such a man needs you more than loving you. If you meet such a man, you should give up as soon as possible, because he won't be the right person.

The truly right person will make you feel comfortable and relaxed when you are together, because he likes the real you, so you can be yourself easily, because he will cherish you, so you don't need to please him carefully.

Even love can last for a long time. Only what one party pays humbly will eventually break, not without feelings, but unbearable.

When you meet the right person, he is patient, and you can talk to him about your troubles. He will tolerate your shortcomings and even think your shortcomings are cute; He is willing to support you, do good things for you, and let you do what you want with peace of mind.

If you love the right person, you will get happiness; If you love the wrong person, you will suffer.

In Ode to Joy, Andy will eventually choose Bao Yifan, which is already doomed.

Both Wei Wei and Bao Yifan know that Andy is mentally ill, but Wei Wei's love for Andy is more pity and sympathy. Andy with Vivian is inferior. Wei Wei's care for her always reminds her that she is a mental patient and should pay attention to all aspects.

But Andy, who is with Bao Yifan, is confident.

Bao Yifan also accepted the fact that Andy was ill, but unlike Wei Wei, Bao Yifan didn't always talk about the fact that Andy was a patient. He only thinks about how to make Andy happy and how to comfort Andy. The important thing is to enjoy the present happiness.

Love is actually very simple. The person who can make you feel relaxed and happy with you is the right person.

Andy chose Bao Yifan because when she was with Bao Yifan, she was a happy person, not a patient who recurred at any time.