Is it okay for a man to be single all his life?

Lead: Everyone wants to get married when they reach marriageable age, but everyone wants to marry the person they love. However, love is hard to find. If it were easy to find, there wouldn't be so many older men and women left, let alone so many unmarried people.

Whether for love or other reasons, will those men who have never been married regret it?

Director Dong: I am 65 years old, which is different from the young people now. They pick and choose because of love. I am too poor to marry a wife.

At that time, although honesty and good character were enough, there were many children at home and poor living conditions, and no one wanted to match me, so it has been until now.

No regrets after marriage? For me, there are no regrets, only regrets. I want to find a wife when I am old, but I am a farmer. In addition to farming, I live on a monthly subsidy from the state and can't afford a wife.

Now that my health is getting worse and worse, I always want someone to take care of myself, but I can only think about those.

Fortunately, however, I have two sisters who live close to each other. They will come to help whenever something happens. Whether they are married or not, at least one thing is very gratifying. They will not die in the house one day, and no one will take care of them.

Mr. Ding: I am a 65-year-old orphan. When I was 3 years old, I was adopted by my adoptive parents. /kloc-I lived happily until I was 0/0 years old. Since my brother was born, they have been treating me worse and worse.

When I was old enough to get married, they ignored me. At the age of 30, I traveled to the south. At that time, the money was really easy to earn, and I saved a lot of money to start my own business. Money tells me that it can be said to be an inexhaustible flower.

Many women want to marry me, but suddenly I don't want to get married. I always feel that these women don't really like me, but I'm not idle. I don't know how many people I have met in my life.

I am 50 years old and want to find a woman to get married, but there is a prerequisite that I have a child and then get a license. Although the conditions are difficult, there are still women who are willing, so I don't want to have a difficult birth.

Since then, I never want to get married again, thinking that money can solve all problems, but I can't buy sincerity and spend money to hire a nanny. People think that you are alone and want to cheat you, even if the salary is higher, you have no conscience.

What I regret most in my life is not getting married. What's the use of having money? If life does not bring death, it is better to have someone around you who knows the cold and the hot.

Mr. Liu: I am 65 years old. If I don't get married all my life, how can I not regret it? I belong to that unfortunate man. 2 1 year-old, met a woman through a matchmaker. In those days, there was no love, as long as parents agreed.

Unexpectedly, on the first night of the wedding, the woman ran away and the marriage failed.

At the age of 25, I was introduced. I think people are pretty, and I'm tempted myself. But before I got married, it was rumored that she was having an affair with educated youth. It seemed that she was pregnant and her marriage broke down again.

No one introduced me to anyone after that. My parents went to tell fortune and said that I was a monk all my life and it was impossible to get married. I was devastated. After that, I don't want to find someone anymore.

At the age of 55, I had a physical problem and had an operation. My brother and sister take care of me. After leaving the hospital, it is still so hard to find a wife. I don't hate your poor health, but I hate your lack of money.

Man, I have to accept my fate. Maybe I really am a monk in my life. Now it's up to my brothers and sisters. Although I know I have caused them trouble, I can't help it. Let's live every day.

Conclusion: Both men and women will never get married. It doesn't matter when they are young. They are healthy and energetic. They are free and can do whatever they want.

But after entering old age, people feel more and more lonely, and it is best to have someone around them.

There is really no way for those who don't get married for special reasons, but those who have the ability to get married choose not to get married and regret it when they are old. It is too late.

Especially men and women are different. Japanese writer Junichi Watanabe said: "Men are more afraid of loneliness than women, lack the ability to live independently and are not good at communication. They are strong on the surface, but weak in spirit. " .

Therefore, men will never get married, unless you have the ability to endure loneliness and take care of yourself, otherwise, the night will be bleak!

Today's topic: Do you think you will be happy if you don't get married all your life?

I'm sister Li. If you have an emotional story, come to me.