Why do you say "you can't go if you are poor, but you can't go if you are rich?"

Of these three customs, the first two are followed by many people, and the third is dross, and some people follow them, but many people are no longer bound.

First, don't go to other people's homes to collect debts.

No matter what money others owe you, don't mention what money you owe others during the Spring Festival. Not to mention that it is not that this matter can pass, but as a peaceful and auspicious festival, everyone hopes to spend it happily.

Some people say that I haven't seen anyone all the year round, and the Spring Festival has finally come back. I will seize the time to force the debt so as not to fail again next year.

The fact is true, you are in a bad mood to collect debts, and the other party is in a bad mood when you come to collect debts, let alone the result. This embarrassing entanglement will also greatly reduce the holiday.

We are more reasonable and affectionate. Everyone knows how to pay off debts. If you understand him, he will naturally respect you. After the friendly new year, it is natural to collect debts, and it is time to pay back the money.

If everyone is unhappy, things that could have been solved smoothly will be deliberately embarrassed, and I am afraid that everyone will not have a good life this year.

Second, don't say anything unlucky.

The most important thing in the festival is the atmosphere. The family is happy, and friends and relatives are busy. It is a wonderful thing to say hello to each other and pass on blessings to each other. But it's also talking. One wrong word makes people angry.

Some people didn't mean it, others did it on purpose. No matter what the situation, remember not to say unlucky things during the New Year.

Everyone is willing to listen to sweet words. Kind, encouraging, caring, warm and positive words make people feel like spring breeze, make people happy and warm their hearts, so this festival will leave unforgettable memories.

If you say something sarcastic, sarcastic, insulting or even insulting, it will not only leave a bad impression on you, but also make the festival gloomy and depressing. I'm afraid everyone will stay away from you in the future.

Getting together is fate, so cherish the rare time together and say more auspicious words, because when you bless others, you are actually blessing yourself.

Third, a married woman can't go back to her family.

This is no longer a constraint for modern people. People used to think that a married daughter belonged to her husband's family. During the Spring Festival, she will serve her in-laws and receive guests. If she is busy going back to her parents' house on New Year's Day, it will affect the feelings of the two families.

With the marriage of the only child, the couple have to face four old people, or even more. Whose home to go for the New Year has become a controversial topic for many couples, some harmonious and some controversial.

As the sketch said, your father is also my father, and your home is also my home. Go back to your home this year and my home next year. Ideally, two old people will come to meet you and celebrate the New Year together.

With the increasing convenience of transportation, people can travel more smoothly, and now married women can visit their parents at any time. Of course, there is another reason. With the opening up of ideas, people are more tolerant and understand each other.

Whether together or not, there is a video reunion, a phone call to celebrate the New Year, happiness is never discounted, and happiness is still 100%.

For personal experience.

Lingling spent the Spring Festival in her husband's family for four consecutive years after her marriage. Lingling wants to go back to her hometown this year, but her husband and mother-in-law disagree. Finally Lingling quarreled with her husband. In a rage, Lingling went back to her family first, and her daughter was very wronged. Parents should naturally support her, which means spending the New Year at home. But the closer the year is, the worse my sister-in-law's family looks. Finally, on the morning of New Year's Eve, my brother told Lingling hesitantly that marrying a woman at home for the New Year would affect her family's fortune for one year and see if Lingling could go back to her husband's house. Or if you really don't want to go back, you can go to the hotel for the New Year's Eve.

In desperation, Lingling spent the night alone in the hotel on New Year's Eve, and it was no exaggeration to cry all night. Therefore, some people say that a married woman is the most pitiful, being an outsider in her husband's family and being a guest in her family.