My mother asked me for money, but I didn't give it to her because I was a nanny and didn't have a job. Will she understand me?

Not necessarily. Many people only think about themselves. For example, my mother only thinks about herself, as long as she has enough. Everyone else should contribute to her as she thinks. It's like all my relatives, including my grandmother, owe her.

In my eyes, there is no one but my brother. Every day I think about how we and others should give her money, how to contribute and how to help my brother. Whether you have the ability or not, you should do what she wants. So the main thing is whether you have it in your heart. I can't understand myself, but I can consider your actual situation and put myself in your shoes.

As a mother, she tries her best to love her children and want to give them everything in the world. How could she ask the child for money if she didn't meet with something very difficult?

Can your mother not know about you? Because she wants money, she is definitely in trouble. If she can't do it herself, she will ask you, mother's little cotton-padded jacket, for money. Do you know how long your mother struggled with her thoughts before she could talk to you?

Getting started is not easy. You should know more about the purpose of asking for money. If you need it badly, you should share your troubles with your mother, and pity her for placing infinite hope on you. Slow down, you can explain the situation to your mother, make sure to pay the money on time, do a good job, and never embarrass your mother.

You are a mother, don't think so unreasonable about your mother. Mothers love their children the most! I can never repay my kindness!

Mom asked you for money, but you didn't give it to her, because you are a nanny and have to take care of the children at home. Without a job, there is no income, and only the husband makes money to make a living at home. Of course, if your husband has a high income and a good family economy and you have some money, you can give it to your mother.

However, if your husband's income is average and his family economy is not very good, when you ask him for money for your mother, it may cause conflicts between husband and wife and even divorce. So, you can tell your mother that after you send your children to kindergarten, you can do some part-time work nearby, and then you can have money to supplement your mother.

Mom will understand you if she is not in a hurry to use money. After all, your mother raised you to study in the hope that you could find a good job and live a good life. So, tell mom that when your children grow up and go to school, you will find a job that can pick them up and make money.

Then you will have money for your mother. However, if your mother needs money urgently now, such as seeing a doctor. Then you can only discuss with your husband and try your best to help your mother within your ability. I believe your husband also understands that being kind to the elderly is the truth of being kind to yourself.

You can't make others understand just because you are a nanny. Your family can make you a nanny, but you can't be responsible. I don't know if you have any work experience and education, and I don't know about your mother's family. But the parents who gave birth to you and raised you ask you for money. As long as it is reasonable, as long as it is capable, it is necessary to satisfy her wishes anyway.

You don't need to help if you have more. No, it is true that married women are locked up. It's okay to have a leg hug. If nobody cares, you have to let the other half reason. Take care of your family's finances. If the remaining money is enough to subsidize your mother's pocket money, it should be no problem. Do you understand why she knows that you don't go to work for money? My mother doesn't want it, because I always pay for shopping together.

Mother was very sad, and got a small cotton-padded jacket to take care of it, and got a stick as a result. She won't understand you. She takes you to study and work. Finally, you study and don't work, and you want to give up her after losing yourself. Your mother has been busy living a lonely life.

Since I asked you for money, I don't understand. If I can give it, I will give it to my mother. If not, I will tell my mother to visit her often.

A mother who loves her children may understand you, but at the same time she will be particularly chilling. As a parent, if it is not difficult and there is no way, she will not easily ask her children for money. So, stop being a mother and shoulder your responsibilities. When your parents are old, you should have independent thoughts and have the responsibility and obligation to manage and protect this family.

Everyone has different ideas. I am poor. My daughter has been married for thirteen years. I haven't contacted her. I'd rather eat and wear old clothes than drag my children down. Give some money for holidays and birthdays, not theirs. I said leave me alone when I am too old to move. There must be a brother or younger brother in your family who comes to you for money to take care of his son Sun Xiu. No matter how difficult it is for your daughter, you have to open this mouth to prove that your mother is unreasonable and only cares about her family.

If your mother is really in trouble and asks you for money, you should help her out with some money; If your mother loves leisure and pleasure, ask you for money, but don't give it to her, because you have no job to support your children and your life is too tight. I believe many mothers will understand their daughter's difficulties, explain to your mother well and care more about her psychologically.