What are the taboos of marriage customs in Guangxi?

Zhuang people are intermarried, and people of the same family are not allowed to intermarry. Many places can't help but want to get married with the same surname, but in western Guangxi, some powerful people regard "marriage with the same surname" as "climbing the ashes", which is prohibited by society. In the process of marriage, the role of tertiary rights is quite prominent, and in some places the opinions of tertiary rights even play a decisive role. There is a popular saying that "the biggest in the sky is Lei Gong, and the biggest underground is Uncle Gong".

Zhuang people have the custom that Lei Gong forbids marriage. According to legend, from August of the lunar calendar to February of the New Year, Raytheon closes his door to sleep, and the world is peaceful, which is an auspicious season. People were elected to get married during this period. From March to July, Lei Gong went out to act, and thunder rumbled from time to time, prohibiting marriage between people. If there is an offender, he will be punished by Lei Gong, and his marriage will be inappropriate and his family will be unhappy. Therefore, in order to avoid taboos, there is generally no blind date, engagement or marriage during this period.

Young men and women in mashan county, Guangxi, are dating. When we meet for the first time, don't make an example for entertainment, otherwise the talks will collapse in nine cases out of ten. Killing chickens and ducks is considered unlucky, and marriage is naturally difficult.

In the past, people generally practiced the custom of staying indoors. In some places, it was considered immoral and unlucky for the bride and groom to share the same room on their wedding night. There are different customs in different places in the ceremony of receiving relatives and visiting relatives. Some people have to go out at a certain time and arrive at the groom's house or the bride's house at a certain time (uxorilocal marriage) There is a ceremony of bamboo doors or their evil spirits in fashion, which is intended to stop the ghosts and evil spirits brought by newcomers.

Married women should not touch the incense table. When a married daughter goes back to her mother's house, she can't reach what is put on the altar.

There are some special taboos for pregnant women, parturients and newborns in Zhuang society, aiming at avoiding offending ancestors, attracting ghosts to ward off evil spirits and ensuring the safety of women and children.

Women should avoid some taboos when they are pregnant. If you don't eat dog meat and Chili, you're afraid of causing fetal distress. If there is a pregnant woman at home who can't repair the house and tools, and the pregnant woman's bed can't move, she is also afraid of bad luck.

In children's homes, insert more items outside the door as a sign to prevent outsiders from entering the wrong place and bringing ominous. In some places, pomelo leaves or yellow leaves are inserted, in some places, small bags made of yellow cloth or red cloth are hung, and in some places, a handful of grass or grass is tied. Don't throw away your baby's placenta. Some strong people wrapped it in straw and quietly tied it to the east of the tree in the dead of night. There was fruit behind the tree. It is shaped like an adult carrying a child, symbolizing the continuous prosperity of future generations.