I've always had bad luck. How can I get lucky?

Around you, you will often see some people who are passionate about their work. They found the position that suits them best. You will feel that the world sometimes seems unfair to people. How can these people be so lucky? In fact, how much luck you can meet depends on your willingness to act. Because you don't know what you want in life, you may feel that you don't know where to go. When we have a solution to the problem, each of us is willing to put it into action. It is absolutely necessary for people who don't know what they want in life to act first. I can give you four good reasons: 1. Action helps you think and provides you with information. Action allows you to get in touch with real life and experience real life experiences. This kind of action will make you think more comprehensively and deeply, far better than sitting there weighing various theoretical factors. Even actions that eventually show the opposite direction will provide you with useful information. 2. Take action to improve your self-esteem. In most cases, people don't think about action not only because they are indecisive, but also because they are afraid. However, whenever you want to do something that scares you and do it boldly, your self-esteem will improve. Because every time you bravely overcome your fears, you will feel successful. You can actually experience the feeling of success, which is intoxicating. My experience is that action can improve self-esteem more effectively than simple thinking, even if you don't do well. Telling yourself that you are a good person will not have a long-term effect on improving your self-esteem. At least, it doesn't work for me. I said to myself in the mirror, I am amazing. But from the next day, I began to be suspicious in the mirror: "Who are you trying to fool?" This seems to mean that we don't like to show off, even for our own good. Most rewarding things in life, such as riding a bike, traveling abroad, or having sex, are always awkward and embarrassing at first. Whether you are willing to adapt to the initial situation largely determines the course of your life. When you first started dating someone, you felt restless, but aren't you glad you finally went on a date? If you are always running away, you can only stand still in life. My friend Pete never wanted to ride a horse, because he went to the stable for riding lessons when he was 10, and saw a girl of 18 riding better than him. So he got off the horse and never practiced riding again. What's the big deal? No, it's important. "Because that's the attitude I've been taking ever since." That's what Pete told me Life without courage and vitality is hell. I always feel uncomfortable when I go to a lecture. I have been used to staying at home, walking my dog, shopping and writing something on the computer because I have been absent from school for several months. So when it was time to leave for a special workshop, I began to lose my mind. I will reluctantly find a thick marker for the lecture, get dressed, catch the early flight and put on pantyhose. But when I stood in front of the door, I felt great. I'm glad I should do all this. It made me feel so powerful that I never considered canceling even one lecture. When you act, you will have good luck. In real life, the way to find the best solution and meet the best person depends on the opportunity. I miss doing things in a planned way, but planning is likely to become a fiction, a subjective idea on paper. Perhaps the best reason for me to make a plan is that following the plan can help you avoid being at a loss when you are involved in a complicated life, but if you go to the library to look up articles, call others, participate in some organizational activities, or get to know others, some opportunities may come to you. it wont hurt you to try it Set a goal, no matter what it is, and then start trying to get close to it, and do it as soon as you think of it, as long as it is conducive to achieving it. I can assure you that your life will change in this way. You may not have achieved your expected goal at all, but the result now should at least be better. You will have breakthroughs you didn't expect at all, because you never know there will be these breakthroughs. Different people need different plans. There is a more subtle plan, not limited to helping you set goals. It can be achieved by thinking about it every time you have to make a choice. Will making such a choice bring you closer or farther away from your goal? You should always make a choice close to your goal. If you are still thinking about working on a farm this summer vacation, but you finally want to become an expert in urban planning, then you should not work on a farm and look for a job in the city. This is the so-called "follow your nose", which is smarter than sitting there thinking-as long as your nose is pointed at your goal. We should actively participate in practical affairs and communicate with more people. Don't worry at all, as various reasons keep coming, your goals will become clearer and clearer. No matter what kind of planning you make, you should always stay awake and adjust your route according to your own feelings. Remember, as long as you regard your pursuit as the north star that guides your actions, then you are putting a powerful plan into practice.