Judge whether a woman is a lady.

1. Generally, do miss will choose a city far from home, which is not easy to be found by hometown people. 2, in order not to make people doubt, the average lady will go home deliberately without makeup, very casual. Young ladies usually live a nightlife and go to bed late in the morning. So if your ex-girlfriend sleeps almost until noon every morning, congratulations! 4. In order to cover up the fact of do miss, she will deliberately avoid swearing in her daily life. There are two kinds of people in do miss, one is born lazy and the other is forced by life. 6, poor liver function, heavy breath. Because Miss do often needs to stay up late and accompany wine, her liver function will not be too good to cause bad breath. 7. You can drink more. 8. Look at her circle of friends. If you don't have a high degree, you can earn a lot of money every year, and you usually have various meals, then you may win again. 9. I like to send a circle of friends that I think is high. 10, strong vanity. What are the characteristics of women who have been ladies? 1. Look at her behavior. If a woman is already a young lady, when friends of the opposite sex hug her waist or touch her legs, they often don't feel anything, even think it is normal, and there will be no excessive reaction. However, most women are conservative and it is impossible for anyone to touch themselves. Therefore, if you touch each other when you are unfamiliar with each other, the other party will not have any reaction, and even take the initiative to approach. Pay attention at this time. 2, look at the clothes Although everyone's own aesthetics are different, if you often work at night, the clothes you wear will often be more likely to highlight your figure. Moreover, if you often wear makeup and high heels, you will often be exposed in wearing, and you are more willing to spend money on these aspects. Pay attention to their clothes, and you will find that they have some exaggerated clothes. 3. Looking at the conversation, female friends who have been ladies often give people a dusty taste in the conversation. But because they need to meet different people at work, they will say different things according to the people they meet, and even be able to cope with things that others can't cope with. If you find that the other party has such characteristics, it is recommended to pay more attention. Is it easy to judge whether a woman is a young lady? What do "ladies" do? In the study, 13 young ladies made it clear that they are just "playing" now, not working. From their narration, we can sum up several meanings of "play": ① Most of the things they do are related to play (singing and dancing, playing cards, playing dice, chatting and drinking, etc.). ), and their "working" hours are flexible, and they can do whatever they want; (2) refers to "acting" in front of guests, such as sometimes hiding personal feelings, "taking part in accidental amusement" to cater to guests, and "acting" can best dilute negative emotions; This is a temporary stage in life, nothing is fixed, and I don't know what to do in the future, so "play" is the most suitable to describe this state. "Play" seems to be a strategy, which women use to weaken the rules, responsibilities and pressures of "work", cope with the ups and downs of emotions, rationalize their seemingly aimless lifestyle and reduce the stigma of women. The arrangement of a day in Xiaohong Station Street is basically like this: go out at about 1 1, go home to sleep at three or four in the morning or four or five in the morning, and "have nothing to do, just play at home" at other times. Play with friends during the day, "or play cards, sometimes go shopping, and at other times, just sleep." She is very used to using the word "play" when talking about her behavior and that of her guests. She thinks the guests are all out for fun, and everyone is not serious. She also comes out to play. And all activities related to nightlife are "playing". For example, she described people who often want to socialize as "the kind who often come out to play" and romantic veterans as "smooth hands who often come out to play". She said that she wouldn't go to love stand Street. "If you have money to play, you won't go out. If you don't have money to play, you will go out and earn a little.". "Playing" here means taking drugs with my boyfriend. When I met Xiaohong, Xiaohong's boyfriend had already entered the drug rehabilitation center. Xiaohong is addicted to drugs, which is a great motivation for her to go out and stand on the street. Every time I go out for one night, I can earn hundreds of dollars, which is enough for her and her boyfriend for a day or two, and then I won't go out until the next time is not enough. Once she suddenly asked me if I wanted her diary. 150 yuan sold it to me because she didn't want to go out because she had no money. I don't want to buy her diary for my research. It seems to be an exchange of my own purposes. The purpose is too strong, which makes me feel uncomfortable. But I knew she needed money, so I told her to "lend" the money first. If she is still willing to show me the diary, I will be happy to know more about her thoughts. Therefore, whether or not to give me the diary becomes a voluntary thing besides borrowing money, and it has nothing to do with money. I don't care if she pays me back. For Xiaohong, the current state of "playing" is a temporary state of confusion when there is no goal in life. She doesn't know how she will live. As a foreigner and a young lady, she has no resources and relationships, so she can only "play and chat". I feel that I have always been very playful, and that's what my parents said about me. They will compare me with my sister and think that she has gone to college and is a teacher, so I will play all day. I think I'm used to it, and now I feel like I'm living day by day. In fact, do miss is just playing, which can also be said to be an excuse for his laziness. I asked her if she thought do miss was working formally, and she said, no, definitely not. It doesn't feel like a formal job. It must be different, like normal work. I think that's what everyone thinks. I don't think do miss is good, so I don't think this is a normal job. Do miss is different from doing a normal job. Others will look down upon it. Do your normal job and pick up garbage, and others will not look down on you. I feel like I'm living blindly and don't want to do anything. I'm going to muddle along anyway. If you don't have money, you go out to make money. If you have money, you don't go, and you have to go out after spending it. That's it. There's no point in living. At best, it's just playing and muddling along. Jia Jia also described her current job in a nightclub as "playing". She is 22 years old and works in do miss, a nightclub in Yantian, Shenzhen. She used to work at the dock. She is a "good girl". After work, she had dinner with her colleagues and went back to the dormitory. She basically doesn't go to entertainment places, feeling that "those places are a mess." Later, one of her colleagues gave someone a birthday and dragged her to a nightclub. She pushed several times, but she was still embarrassed to hit her colleague in the face, so she had to go together. This is the first time she has been to that place. After staying for two hours, she felt very unaccustomed and even a little scared. "I don't understand why my colleagues like to go to that place." In the ballroom, the music was deafening. She said she was like a log, so she stared at others and didn't want to jump. "I just want to go back to the dormitory as soon as possible." The second time a friend asked her to play, she said no. The friend laughed at her cowardice and said, "What is this? What are you afraid of? " She had to save face. Maybe I had the first experience, and when I went there for the second time, I really felt like that. There's nothing to be nervous about. Everyone just goes drinking and dancing. "I didn't do anything illegal or bad." She gradually relaxed. After several times, Jia Jia got used to the environment of dance halls and nightclubs, and sometimes she invited her friends to go with her. The biggest change happened after a year and a half. Jia Jia feels tired and bored as a clerk at the dock. She lived day after day and didn't want to go on like this. The kind of life she wants is "no need to go to work on time, no need to stamp and copy in the small container office every day." It's terribly hot in summer, sweating all over, and it's cold to wear a ball in winter. " Her decision is something she never thought of: going to a nightclub! She described it as: when I had this idea in my head, I couldn't believe that I really thought so. But I don't think it was an impulse. I may have had this idea for a long time, but I dare not admit it. I thought about it and found nothing wrong. The working environment is much better than the dock, the time is flexible, and I can meet many people. It's much more comfortable than the dock and earns a lot of money. She chose an area far from the original pier, so she quit her job and went to a nightclub. Great changes have taken place in her life She can sleep until sunset and stay indoors at night. She can't see the sun all day. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Once or twice, I felt like I hadn't seen the sun for a long time. I looked up and my eyes hurt! I tried "Hi" a few months ago, and I felt dizzy. I feel that everything around me is unreal, like a dream. But I think it's really like dreaming now. I never thought I was afraid to come here before, but now I work here! I used to come here to play, but now I feel I'm still playing. Anyway, I think it is either work or play. This is natural. In this place, these things are only used for singing, dancing and playing. For Jia Jia, "play" can better describe her current state-the complete change of lifestyle, the fun of nightclubs, the illusion caused by drugs, the boundaries between work, play and daily life have no boundaries, and everything is presented in an unreal way. Judging whether a woman is a young lady 3 What does a young lady do today? The word "Miss" represented a chicken more than 10 years ago, but many people still think that Miss is a chicken, which is actually wrong. . . Now miss refers to some women who work as hostesses in KTV or nightclubs. Every night, they go to the company beautifully (ladies usually call their place of work the company), and then many ladies will wait in the ladies' bathroom to watch TV or chat ... waiting for their mother to take them to the exam. Every venue will use a lot of mothers. Every mother has a group of young ladies ... What does a mother do? They need to know some people who often go to play, get on well with them, and then ask these guests to book a box when they go to play again ... Mom has a commission for booking a box ... but the commission on the box is only one of Mom's income, and another relatively large income is her ladies' Taiwan Province expenses. For example, the ladies in this venue spend 300 yuan, and Mommy takes half of 50 yuan. Generally speaking, there will be at least 20-30 little sisters under a mommy. Therefore, the young lady's Taiwan fee is still a relatively large income. Let's talk about ladies ... When the ladies arrived at the company, they were waiting for the distinguished guests in the box set up by Mommy. At this time, mommy will take her little sister to the box to choose with the guests. This is the so-called test bed. The guests have chosen you, so you can sit down and drink, sing, dance and so on with the guests ... Speaking of which, I want to talk about the people playing in the venue. People who go to a venue to play are generally called ladies, which has become a habit and a fashion, just like we have to drink when we go to a hotel for dinner now. If you don't call yourself miss, people will think you are behind the times. Calling miss doesn't mean I want someone to take advantage of tofu or something. . . Many of them are for a better atmosphere. . . What do you mean, a few big men are going to play? Many family boxes are also called ladies. The so-called family bag is that a large family goes to the box to sing. There will be a mistake at this time. In fact, many people who go to play are quite qualified, and the more upscale the venue, the more grade and quality the people who go to play. Anyway, miss. . In fact, the degree of freedom of a young lady is very high, mainly depending on how you do it yourself. . If you think your guest is sexy and moves you, you can quit. Quitting is that you are no longer his stage. ...