The love tragedy between talented woman Tang Wan and poet Lu You Why was Tang Wan abandoned by Lu You?

In the ancient poetry circles in China, Lu You once said "10,000 poems in 60 years", and now there are more than 9,300 poems in the world, more than those of Li Bai and Du Fu. However, whether it is love or career, Lu You is not successful.

Tang Wan, the only daughter of Tang Hong, was rated as a famous talented woman by Zhengzhou people in the Northern Song Dynasty, and Lu You, who was born in a scholarly family, was childhood friends. The Lu family was engaged to the Tang family, and a noble heiress, Feng Chai, was used as collateral. When Lu You was nineteen years old, Tang Wan married the Tang family, and played very well with Lu You, and the couple had deep feelings.

But with the young couple's poetic life all day long, Lu You gradually gave up the pursuit of fame and fortune, which made Lu You's mother, Tang, very dissatisfied. Tang's son was the first granddaughter of Tang Jie, a famous remonstrator in the Northern Song Dynasty. She comes from a famous family and hopes that Lu You can get fame and honor. Now Lu You is addicted to Tang Wan's gentle hometown and has no ambition. She was anxious to blame all this on Tang Wan, thinking that Tang Wan blocked Lu You's future.

The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been the most difficult to reconcile since ancient times, and Lu You has encountered such a problem. At first, mother Tang pulled Lu You and Tang Wan out to reprimand them, but the situation didn't get better. This bottom can completely annoy the Tang mother who intends to break up Tang Wan and Lu You.

How should Tom separate Lu You from Tang Wan? In the end, mother Tang chose to go to the temple to tell her son and daughter-in-law's fortune. The fortune teller told her that Lu You and Tang Wan would worry about their lives. The fortune teller's words confirmed Tang's mother's thoughts and once again strengthened their determination to break up. After returning home, Tang's mother told Lu You the result of fortune-telling, saying that filial piety comes first, there are three unfilial, and there is no big one after. Tang Wan married lujia but never gave birth. This is a big unfilial act, so she forced Lu You to abandon Tang Wan.

One is his mother, the other is his wife. Lu You is in a dilemma. Finally, under the pressure of his mother, he divorced Tang Wan. However, Lu You does not intend to give up his feelings with Tang Wan. What he wants is that after a period of time, his mother's anger subsided and he wanted to take Tang Wan back, so he quietly built another clause to house Tang Wan.

After the separation of husband and wife, Lu You put half his heart on fame and the other half on Tang Wan. He will visit Tang Wan in another hospital from time to time. Unfortunately, paper can't wrap fire after all. The private contact between Lu You and Tang Wan was discovered by Tang's mother. Don's mother broke out again. Not only did she want Lu You to completely cut off contacts with Tang Wan, but she also wanted Lu You to marry the gentle and modest daughter of Wang, thus completely cutting off the possibility of Tang Wan and Lu You getting back together.

After all kinds of quarrels and struggles, Lu You once again compromised with his mother and promised to marry Wang's daughter. Hearing the news of Lu You's marriage, Tang Wan waited in despair. Tang Wan's parents were very angry. Since you can remarry in Lujia, can't I remarry in Tangjia? So with the consent of Tang Wan, they betrothed Tang Wan to Zhao Shicheng, a scholar in the same county, who is a descendant of the royal family in Shaoxing, the capital. Finally, Tang Wan insisted on holding the wedding with Lu You on the same day and became Zhao Shicheng's wife. Zhao Shicheng is generous and affectionate, and has infinite tolerance and understanding of Tang Wan's experience. After marriage, Tang Wan has been unable to let go of her feelings for Lu You and has been guilty of Zhao Shicheng.

Many years later, when Tang Wan visited Shenyuan, he happened to meet Lu You and Wang. Their old lovers met again after many years, which made Lu You and Tang Wan particularly sad. Tang Wanjing gave Lu You a glass of wine, and then left with Zhao Shicheng. The heartbroken Lu You wrote the poem "Hairpin Phoenix" on the wall of the garden: "Red crisp hands, yellow wine, spring willows on the palace wall all over the city. Dong Feng Xie, who is in a bad mood, has been very depressed in recent years. No! No! No! Spring is as old as ever, people are empty and thin, and tears are red and sad. Peach blossom falls, idle pool pavilion, although the mountain alliance is there, it is difficult to hold books. Mo! Mo! Mo! "

Later, Tang Wan visited Shenyuan again, and was deeply moved by the topic of Lu You, so he wrote "Hairpin Phoenix": "The world is thin, human feelings are evil, and flowers are easy to fall in the rain and send the evening. The breeze is dry and the tears are residual. If you have to worry, just say it alone. Difficult! Difficult! Difficult! People become different, today is not yesterday, and sick souls are often thousands of miles away. The horn sounded cold and the night was hazy. Afraid of being asked questions, swallow your tears and pretend to be happy. Hide. Hide. Hey! "

After writing this song, Tang Wan, who returned home, was depressed and died soon. Lu You was very sad after hearing the news of Tang Wan's death. Every day when Shen Yuan opens the door, he will come to Shen Yuan to pay his respects to Tang Wan. Tang Wan's husband Zhao Shicheng never got married after Tang Wan's death. Alas, there must be something hateful about poor people. If Lu You had been more determined, how could this have happened?