Why do some women have no male popularity all their lives?

There is no denying that there are actually many such girls in the world. They are not ugly, have a bad temper and have good conditions, but the peach blossoms in life never bloom. Men regard them as insulators and never make phone calls. Seeing that women who are not as good-looking as themselves have become happy housewives, I can't help but sigh: when will my spring come?

Attractive girls are not necessarily beautiful, but they are not always self-centered, but they will take others to heart. There is a joke: a girl and a boy are talking about games. The boy said, "I passed." The girl input: "I have already passed", but she pressed the delete button again and lost again: "Wow, that's amazing, take me there sometime". ?

This kind of girl usually changes "I" to "you" or "he". After expressing herself, she didn't forget to throw the topic to the other party and let them speak freely. Everyone wants to express themselves. But others don't necessarily find your interesting things interesting, and others don't necessarily want to hear your troubles. ?

Cai Kangyong said that when chatting, everyone is me. Everyone just wants to talk about themselves. You tell your own experience, or your opinion on something, then add "What about you" and "What do you think" and throw the topic to the other party, so that the other party has the space and strength to express, and you will become much cuter.

Of course, after all, more girls lack popularity with men, not because of "barbaric behavior", but because of some personality problems. Cheerful girls are likable, but only girls who are equally cheerful and shy will be infatuated with men. For a simple example, Lin Daiyu in A Dream of Red Mansions has many shortcomings, such as willfulness, suspicion and meanness, but she still fascinates Jia Baoyu.

Xue Baochai is excellent in all aspects, tolerant and knowledgeable, but she is not popular with men. Can you see it? What kind of women do men like? You can be selfish, but you must be true; You can be willful, but you must be cute. In love, naive women are more popular than mature women.

Women who are good at expressing their feelings are more popular than women who are good at hiding their feelings. Because men are not so confident. Be a man's elder sister, not a man's elder sister. Everyone will stay away from people under pressure, especially men.