Hu Xinger is pregnant with three children. Netizen: Whether the marriage is happy or not depends on whether the woman dares to have children.

On Christmas Day, Hu Xinger announced the good news that she was pregnant with her third child.

She mentioned in Weibo: "I come from a family with two sisters. I have realized the benefits of three sisters since I was a child. I always feel that if I can have three children, it will be a wonderful and happy thing. Christmas in 2020 tells everyone that my wish has come true. "

Her husband Li Chengde then sent a Weibo, praising his wife with six "super".

"I am proud of you!" He is not stingy with such praise and respect.

It is not difficult to see that Li Chengde loves Hu Xinger.

When Hu Xinger gave birth to her eldest son less than a month ago, considering that his wife was going to be confined in pajamas, Li Chengde specially held a pajamas party for her to celebrate her birthday, and arranged for all the women present to wear pajamas.

As far as he can, he tries his best to take care of his wife's feelings and make her realize that she is valued and loved.

Surrounded by her husband's love, she has no worries. No wonder Hu Xinger dared to have three children.

However, many women are still in widowed parenting and widowed marriage, and their husbands are always out of the family.

In this case, the first child is already very painful, let alone having a second child and a third child.

A good marriage means that a man gives his wife a sense of security and freedom, so that they can have children with confidence.

After all, what a woman wants in marriage is not only love, but also the tolerance and support given by her husband and family.

0 1. Too many women become free nannies after giving birth.

Once I met my neighbor Feng Jie in the community, and saw her looking haggard, holding her eldest daughter in one hand and taking care of her youngest daughter in the stroller in the other.

I haven't really taken a day off since I had two children.

It turned out that after giving birth to her second daughter, Xifeng quit her job and concentrated on taking care of the children and doing housework at home.

When my husband comes back from work every day, he goes to the study to play games to relieve stress on the grounds that he is too tired to go to work.

Feeding the baby, changing diapers, washing clothes, cooking, cleaning, etc. It was all made by Xifeng herself.

Once, the child was sick and had a fever, and her husband indiscriminately blamed her for not taking good care of the child.

Husband's sentence "You didn't go to work again, is it so difficult to raise two children?" Almost made her run away from home.

Having children and taking care of them affected her career. As a result, instead of being appreciated, she was accused. This is not only what Xifeng is experiencing, but also a true portrayal of more married pregnant women.

Women are afraid to have children because too many women become free nannies after giving birth. They have to take care of children and do housework, and they are as tired as dogs every day. Without financial resources, you have to reach out to your husband and look at your mother-in-law's face.

It is precisely because many men treat their wives as maids and spinsters after marriage, and all the children and housework fall on their wives, which makes this marriage a plunder of women's labor by men.

On the one hand, many young girls become more hesitant before entering marriage; On the other hand, many married women are afraid of having a second child because it means they will work harder.

02. A happy marriage means that the husband is tolerant and considerate.

Colleague Xiaoli is 34 years old and has been married for 4 years.

Other colleagues asked her why she didn't want a daughter and a half.

She told us what she really thinks at this stage.

She said that her husband wanted her to quit her job, concentrate on pregnancy and be a full-time wife.

The husband dislikes Xiaoli's low salary and lets Xiaoli make her own choices. If she chooses a job, she will be a dink, not a child.

However, work has long been an indispensable part of Xiaoli's life.

Even if the salary is not high, I live freely and confidently. Tell her to resign. No

Xiaoli is very upset that she can't get her husband's tolerance and understanding. This is also the reason why she has been slow to have children.

Because she didn't dare to have children at all.

Tolerance and understanding are so important in a good marriage. If there is no tolerance and understanding in marriage, both husband and wife are likely to have a sense of distance and finally can only go their separate ways.

There is a good saying: "A good marriage is always mutual achievement, mutual understanding and consideration, and willingness to listen rather than consuming and demanding each other."

Ada Choi and Max Zhang are model couples in the entertainment circle.

When they fell in love and didn't get married, Max Zhang tolerated Ada Choi's past and didn't mind that Ada Choi had a gambling mother. She doesn't mind that she owes a lot of debts, but protects her behind her back.

Married 13 years, they are still as sweet and loving as their first love.

They often show their love and share their daily life with their three children in Weibo.

Ada Choi enjoyed Max Zhang's infinite tolerance and understanding, and felt that she was spoiled like a child, which made them so loving and sweet.

Ada Choi gave birth to her third child at the age of 46, and friends and fans sent blessings.

Ada Choi's courage to give birth at an older age, isn't Max Zhang giving her confidence?

A good marriage means that the husband is tolerant and considerate, so that the wife can really gain happiness and happiness.

03. A happy marriage needs the support and trust of the husband.

On the day Hu Xinger announced the news of triplets, he saw two comments like this:

"I feel that Li Sheng has always respected, supported and appreciated Xinger's career, so happy."

"Husband and wife have good feelings before they can have three children."

During her pregnancy, Hu Xinger won the champion of the variety show Actor in Place, which was a double harvest for her family and career.

Her husband, Li Chengde, often visited the crew when filming in Hu Xinger, and Hu Xinger tried her best to satisfy whatever she wanted to eat and do.

When Hu Xinger is busy with his career, Li Chengde will take the initiative to take care of his son and not let Hu Xinger worry.

Because of this, 42-year-old Hu Xinger dares to conceive three children with confidence and can bear strong work pressure.

Among them, the mutual trust between husband and wife is indispensable, and the support and encouragement of husband is also indispensable.

Nina O 'Neill said: "Trust is the most important trait that two people enjoy in marriage, and it is also indispensable for building a happy and developing relationship."

There is a saying that marriage is based on love, attachment and respect.

Trust each other wholeheartedly, support each other, and regard each other as the light that can illuminate your progress, so that your relationship can last for a long time.

The success of marriage depends on two people, and one person can make it fail.

A good marriage gives women confidence to have children, which is the tolerance, understanding, support and trust that a husband gives his wife.

Therefore, many times, women dare to have children with confidence because they have a great teammate at home.

May all women in the world have a sweet marriage and enjoy being surrounded by love.

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