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1.2 million bought a new house for fortune telling.

In the past, women liked to ask men such a question, "Your mother and I fell into the water, who would you save first?" When this problem first came out, it was simply "stopping the throat with blood", which embarrassed many young men.

Later, the men studied hard and finally got all kinds of witty answers.

Now there is another question for couples. Which do you choose, house or love?

Some people say that if it is true love, it will definitely choose love. For love, you can get married in a flash or elope, and some people who have no choice but to love will choose double suicide. The house is nothing.

Some people will say that soldiers with flowing water in iron tents can't find a partner as long as their houses and cars are ready.

There are various answers to the same question about marriage and love, mainly because everyone has different views on marriage.

Some people can deny their parents for love and go through fire and water for their loved ones; Some people have to weigh the cost repeatedly when they are in love, because they think that the ultimate goal of love is marriage, and the ultimate goal of marriage is life, and the material foundation is indispensable to life.

Different views, different lives and different views on marriage and love will lead to different natural marriages.

Zhang Yan graduated from university for three years, and now he is 25 years old. He works as a space designer in a large enterprise, and his monthly income after tax is about 8,000 yuan.

The salary of around 8000 is not much in Shenzhen, a coastal super-first-tier city. And if you don't want stability, 8000 is just enough to live.

But life in zhangyan is still good, even a little petty bourgeoisie.

The root cause is that she has a complete house in the local area, and the house area is not small, 120 square meters.

The house was bought by zhangyan's parents around 2009.

Zhangyan's parents are both businessmen and have some money. At that time, they did not find suitable investment opportunities, nor did they find opportunities to expand their business. Together, they bought a house for their daughter who is still in junior high school, and spent 1.2 million yuan.

Zhangyan's boyfriend is also a stranger.

Boyfriend is in good condition, regardless of appearance, education or ability, he is an upper-middle choice.

After graduating from Harbin Institute of Technology, I went to work in zhangyan. He has a first-class working ability, can bear hardships without saying much, and is highly appreciated by department leaders.

Not long after I joined the company, my salary was already above that of zhangyan.

Zhangyan looks good, too. There is a kind of "extravagance" in her long-term pampering, and boys follow her everywhere.

They work in the same company, and the department is close, so they don't look up and see each other. Over time, we have a good impression on each other.

After nearly a year of love, the boy's family urged him to get married. He proposed to zhangyan, and zhangyan agreed.

The two began to agree on their marriage and future plans.

Zhangyan's boyfriend, although he has a good ability, has just entered the society for less than two years and has no savings.

Although he came from a well-off family, he was confined to the local area. He wants to buy a house with three or four million yuan at once, which is beyond his reach.

Seeing her boyfriend's dilemma, zhangyan comforted him and said, "It doesn't matter if you can't afford a house for the time being. Now a few students have just left campus and can buy a house and a car without their parents.

And as you know, the house I live in now is my own. I have no debt and no mortgage. I can live in my house after I get married. "

Boyfriend doesn't talk, but his face is not very good. Maybe his dignity as a man was provoked.

When her boyfriend didn't refuse, zhangyan acquiesced to him, so she began to clean up her four-year-old lair and prepare it as her wedding bridal chamber.

Just when everything was in full swing, zhangyan's boyfriend talked to her about the house again.

Boyfriend said that living in a woman's house after marriage is no different from eating soft rice. It hurts his face to say it.

He asked zhangyan to add his name to the room book, but he wouldn't take advantage of zhangyan. He is willing to pay 600,000 yuan, which is half of the house price paid by zhangyan's parents when they buy a house.

His proposal embarrassed zhangyan.

First, the house was bought by parents. If you want to change the property owner, you must get the consent of your parents. Secondly, when the house was just bought, it was 6.5438+0.2 million yuan, and now the house price has doubled.

The same lot, the same house, the market price has been around 7 million.

600 thousand may not even be a fraction of the overall house price.

Even if zhangyan can't bear to part with himself, let alone his parents who have been doing business all their lives.

Zhangyan told her boyfriend about her worries and put forward a more pertinent opinion in her opinion.

"If you feel bad about living in the house I bought before marriage, we can consider renting a house and renting out my house. I can help bear part of the rent. When we got married, we were husband and wife, so it shouldn't be so clear.

If you find it inconvenient to rent a house and you want to add a name, you can either convert the house into the current market price, and you will pay half of the money and we will share the property rights equally; Or according to the proportion of capital contribution to the market price of the house, agree on the proportion of each other in the property right of the house.

What do you think? "

"Not so good!" Boyfriend didn't agree to zhangyan's proposal.

He thinks that no matter how much the house is now, zhangyan only spent 6.5438+0.2 million yuan to buy it, and it is reasonable for him to pay 600,000 yuan to buy half of the property rights.

Besides, when two people get married, they are a family. What is the value-added part?

Because of this, they had a quarrel.

It is natural for her boyfriend to insist on 600,000 yuan to buy half of the property rights, but zhangyan thinks that her boyfriend is deliberately embarrassing her, or even has ulterior motives.

When they were in love, two people who hardly blushed fell into a cold war for this matter.

Zhangyan thinks it's time to give up this relationship if her boyfriend is still so unreasonable.

Zhangyan and her boyfriend answered the question "How to solve the conflict between house and love" with practical actions.

Obviously, in their eyes, the house is more important than love.

When a person really falls in love, he doesn't care about face or money. He only cares if the other person has him in his heart.

Unlike Mr. and Mrs. zhangyan, classmate Lao Wu's husband is a very interesting person.

Lao Wu and her husband are college classmates, one grade, one major and one class. Everyone thinks they are friends in love, but they are not.

When they are studying, they seldom have time to meet each other except in class. They know each other's names, but they are not familiar with each other.

The real acquaintance between them was in the year of internship in senior year.

Lao Wu and he just joined the same company when they were looking for an internship unit. In a strange environment, unfamiliar classmates suddenly became friendly, and the two began to get familiar with each other quickly.

After completing the thesis defense, they formally confirmed their love relationship when they left the campus.

Lao Wu first took his boyfriend back to his hometown to see his parents, and his boyfriend took Lao Wu to see his parents non-stop.

The two began to associate.

Lao Wu is a restless man, with ideas, courage and a little stupidity. She likes big cities and travel. She wandered around after graduation, and her boyfriends followed her.

Wherever I go, as long as I plan to stay longer, my boyfriend will keep looking for jobs to support their daily expenses.

Lao Wu stayed in the rental house to read books, and she always had an "iron rice bowl" dream.

This dream was made in 1967, and her boyfriend followed her crazy for 67 years.

On the crazy journey, the two got the license.

In a city where they live, they bought a patchwork house, and her boyfriend took the big head. That's what Lao Wu meant. Finally, her boyfriend registered the house in Lao Wu's name.

This made Lao Wu particularly moved, which is also the reason why she was unmoved even if she encountered more temptations over the years, because she knew it was difficult to find another person who was so sincere and so dead set on herself.

She told me that she would be with her husband in this life unless he changed his mind first.

Lao Wu and her husband later sold the house and earned hundreds of thousands. All the money went into Lao Wu's bank card.

Now that they have settled in a second-tier city, Lao Wu finally got his wish after years of exams, but he is not a civil servant, but a teacher.

The problem of house and love is actually the problem of bread and love.

Different people have different views on whether to fill their stomachs or cheer up first.

If the three views are inconsistent, the perspective of the problem is different, and the results are naturally different.

It's like a blind man touching an elephant, and his feelings are only within your understanding.

Love is the premise of marriage, and marriage is the foundation of family.

As the ancients said, everything goes well if you start a family first.

It is true that many people, such as Wang Sicong, have inherited the shadow of their ancestors, but there are also many people who started from scratch. It is often the rich generation that leads to the rich second generation.

Therefore, what matters is not how much money you have now, but whether you have a dragon slayer in your hand now.

If you live long and keep your eyes on the present, you are doomed to go far, because you will lose your way when you walk.

If you want to start a marriage, don't stare at the superficial things like houses and cars. First of all, you should see whether the other person is the right person, whether they have a deep emotional foundation, and ask yourself whether you are ready to shoulder the burden of a family.

I don't pay attention to face when I am with my lover. In the eyes of your lover, now only you love her or don't care about her, and don't give face to irrelevant people.

Think carefully, does your lover give you a cold look when you make a mistake? When you are at a loss, scold you in front of everyone; When you hold the baby, he just walks forward, regardless of you, and so on.

Even if he has a house and a car, would you like to live with such a person?

Life is not just the present, but also poetry and distance.

Two people with love, as long as they are simply together, will be happy and both are willing to strive for a better life for each other.

Husband and wife are new, and their interests are cut off. What difficulties can stop people who are willing to do everything for their families and lovers?

If you enter the eyes of money from the beginning, all you see and think about is how to use each other and write everything down in each other's name. What is the need to go on with this calculated marriage!