Why do you have a bad feeling

Why is there a bad feeling? A hunch is usually a sixth sense officer, which is mainly manifested in seeing something that should not be seen, hearing something that should not be heard, or feeling that something will happen. Sometimes we have a bad feeling. Why do we feel bad?

Why do you have a bad feeling 1 1. Introduction

There are many kinds of premonitions, but not many belong to the sixth sense officer. If you imagine it out of thin air, the probability of this kind of thing happening will not be very high, just like buying lottery tickets. I have a hunch that the probability of belonging to the sixth sense officer will be higher. At present, no scientist can accurately explain the scientific truth, but most of the explanations are related to electromagnetic waves. In today's era of electromagnetic waves, electromagnetic waves have affected our sixth sense officer, so there are often some phenomena similar to the sixth sense officer, which usually do not need to be considered.

Second, explain in detail.

1, the first act of Lao She's Teahouse: "Some tea drinkers seem to have a premonition of some kind of disaster and have gone out one by one." Ye Shengtao's neighbor: "Then maybe something new happened today, I said intuitively." Ding Ling's Water II: "Those unguarded herds, those birds that can't sleep, flapped their wings and flew away, all of whom had a crazy premonition of the coming tragedy."

2. Chance is inevitable.

Act V of Mao Dun's Before and After Tomb-Sweeping Day: "I have a hunch that your clear intention to change policies and accumulate funds will come to nothing in the end." Sha Ting's Trapped Beast XVII: "All this confirms his terrible premonition: his hopes have been dashed." Wei Wei's Oriental, Part I, Chapter III: "With his father gone, Guo Xiang has a heavy heart and a bad feeling."

Why is there a bad feeling? 2. An old fortune teller said that you had a disaster of mass annihilation. You didn't believe it at first, but a voice in your inner corner said, I may really have a disaster of mass annihilation, so you will be distracted at work and hurt yourself.

These thoughts in our hearts for a moment have actually come true. Isn't it as simple as a blessing to get what you want?

Not really, because there is an effect in psychology called self-testifying prophecy.

What is self-certified prophecy?

Self-testifying prophecy is also called self-fulfilling prophecy. Simply put, it is what you think in your heart and how things will develop.

There is a fable of "the last bank" in psychology, which describes the phenomenon of self-testimony prediction.

Like all capital banks, this bank has some liquid cash reserved for customers to withdraw money from time to time, and most of its assets are used to invest in some high-risk and high-profit projects. One day, a large number of customers came to the bank. Some customers were worried that there was something wrong with the bank and went to the bank to withdraw money. Later, more and more customers want to withdraw money while the bank can still withdraw money.

More and more customers withdraw money, and people are convinced of the rumor that banks are insolvent and about to go bankrupt, so more customers go to banks to withdraw money, and finally banks are insolvent and bankrupt.

People have a definition of situation, which leads to a series of behaviors. Finally, this definition was made permanent, and things had the same result as the original definition. This is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Second, the impact of self-certification prediction?

There is a real case in the psychology book. There was a woman who divorced her three husbands because of domestic violence. The woman is puzzled. She doesn't understand why all three husbands are gentle before marriage, but they will abuse her after marriage. The woman's psychiatrist got the answer from her third husband.

It turns out that when women were young, they often saw their fathers abusing their mothers, so they made up their minds not to marry a gentle man when they grew up. But after marriage, she always had a hunch that men are virtuous and she would be beaten by her husband like her mother.

Therefore, every time I have a little conflict with my husband, she always says, "Come and hit me, if you don't like me, hit me!" " Come on! "

Under his wife's repeated verbal provocations, the husband became dizzy and began to beat his wife.

She is afraid that her husband will be like her father, so she has been trying and guessing. Finally, at her own suggestion, her husband really became a domestic violence man.

I also have a real case around me. Xiaomei is a repeat student. The reason why she chose to repeat her studies is because she thinks she will be admitted to the university she wants to go to.

So she has been working hard to do and brush the questions, staying up late to review, and in the first exam, her score was nearly 200 points lower than that of the university she wanted to take, but she did not give up. She thinks that the second college entrance examination is sure to be admitted to that university.

When she took the provincial entrance examination for the first time, she was still far from the predicted ranking of her favorite university. Her family advised her to change her goal and not to give herself such a big burden. But she still believed that she would be admitted to that university in the college entrance examination, so she ignored anyone's dissuasion and continued her study. Finally, her college entrance examination score exceeded the average, and she was really admitted to the school she wanted to study.

What I want to tell you through these two examples is that it depends on ourselves whether self-certification prediction will bring positive or negative effects. When we conclude that one thing has such a possibility, we give up our efforts on other possibilities, virtually killing the other possibilities that already exist in this matter.

Your heart is convinced that one thing is like this, and you will try your best to find details that can prove this possibility, and eventually things will be as you wish. What kind of world you are, you will see what kind of world you will live in. This is the truth.

Third, how can we better educate children in the language of self-incrimination?

(1) Delete the word "poor" from the conversation with children.

Many parents are used to using the word "poor" when educating their children. "You see Xiao Ming next door, how excellent. You see, I didn't even look. " "Why are you so bad that you can't do such a simple question?" "Why are you so poor and easy to learn?" According to the language of self-testimony, once parents talk too much, children will feel that they are such poor people, and it is useless to try again. They are so pitiful. After their parents talk too much, they will feel that their children are so pitiful. They will no longer look at the advantages of their children and will always be obsessed with their shortcomings. Every time a child fails the exam, he will prove his inner thoughts, which is not good, and it is really not good in the end.

(2) Find the right opportunity to give him some sunshine and let him shine.

When relatives go home, they will boast that their children are sensible because of the scene. Many parents will say, "Yes, I'm lazy there, but I'm just pretending to have guests here today." This practice is actually a big taboo! It will not only damage children's self-esteem, but also make them think that I am so lazy, so hypocritical and have a decadent outlook on life, which is simply unacceptable.

Therefore, the correct way for parents is to follow the words of relatives and praise their children. After listening to their words, the children will be more serious and sensible, because the next time relatives see their laziness, they will be embarrassed and even praise her family as a liar. Finding these suitable opportunities to praise children more can make them more sensible and will not let them develop a proud character.

(3) Don't apply rumors without scientific basis to children.

Some rumors have been circulating for a long time, and everyone is convinced. For example, girls are better at science than boys when they are young, but they will be worse when they grow up. Don't tell them. If your daughter shows off her good grades in science, and you say that girls will get worse in science when they grow up, then her daughter will really regress when she grows up, because she will think of your words when she regresses, and then she will root the reason for her retrogression here and stop working hard.