"Who said too much at the wedding, don't beg me in the future." What do you think of what the groom said that relatives dare not say?

In this society, there will always be some people who, in the name of being good for you, point at other people's family affairs anyway and make self-righteous "suggestions" in the name of their loved ones. Some of them are actually out of a dark state of mind, that is, they don't want other people's things to go smoothly;

Some people really think that they can help from the heart, but in fact they overestimate their abilities and make random ideas without understanding them. If they can't help, they will do bad things with good intentions!

This is even more troublesome to others! Therefore, as relatives, in the face of other people's family affairs, we should arrange our own position and help those who can help. In addition, it is best not to talk too much and make ideas!

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When Xiaomei and her husband were preparing for the wedding, they met such relatives who always made blind ideas. Relatives are actually the groom's two sisters.

Xiaomei's husband's family lives in the provincial capital, and the family conditions are relatively good, and all this is caused by Xiaomei's husband's parents.

Xiaomei's husband's family used to start a business in the countryside. A family of three started from scratch. At present, they have houses and cars in the city. Now Xiaomei's husband has his own shop to do business.

Xiaomei's husband, mother and two sisters are all in their hometown in the countryside. Relatively speaking, the conditions are relatively poor. Xiaomei's husband usually takes care of two aunts, and their sons also work in Xiaomei's husband's shop. Usually, he always asks Xiaomei's husband for help.

This time Xiaomei and her husband are going to have a wedding, and the groom's two aunts also came from their hometown in advance to live at Xiaomei's husband's house and prepare to attend the nephew's wedding.

Originally, I was very happy, but Xiaomei's husband's two aunts always cut in when Xiaomei and her husband discussed the details of the wedding. Later they said Xiaomei didn't need to spend money on a wedding dress. A wedding dress is so expensive, just one day. Isn't this a waste of money? Just rent one! Later, there was no need to keep such high-end hotel reservations.

At first, Xiaomei thought that she would always be her husband's aunt and couldn't say anything. At first, however, she just smiled.

But after talking too much, Xiaomei was naturally unhappy, thinking that her husband and parents didn't say anything, but the two aunts had great opinions. What is this?

Fortunately, Xiaomei's husband gave strength and knew Xiaomei was unhappy. At first, she would ask her aunt to say less. It's not the same thing to see two aunts later. As I said, one sentence passed: Who wants to talk about my wedding again? Don't ask me for anything in the future! This stopped the two aunts.

Fortunately, Xiaomei's husband is a very tolerant person and will not listen to her aunt's words, which also makes Xiaomei feel that her husband is still reliable.

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Of course, there are not a few relatives who like this verbosity, and many people always rely on their elders to dictate!

Xiaowen's wedding experience is similar to Xiaomei's. Xiaowen and her husband are college classmates. They have been together since their freshman year. After graduation, they went to Guangzhou to work hard together. After a little success, they are going to get married. Before the wedding, Xiaowen and her husband got the marriage certificate first, and then went back to their hometown for the wedding.

Thinking that marriage is a major event in life, once in a lifetime, Xiaowen and her husband want to make the wedding as perfect as possible, and their in-laws also support it.

It happened that an uncle of Xiaowen's husband's family had a lot of opinions about Xiaowen's wedding. Later, I said that there were too many gifts for Xiaowen's family. Later, I said that there was no need to invite a master of ceremonies at the wedding. Because there is too much money.

What bothers Xiaowen is that because of her husband's uncle's words, she and her husband have some contradictions, and his uncle, in turn, said, I am for your own good!

You see, such relatives are fanning the flames and saying it's for your own good. For such relatives, it's time to turn against each other.

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Many times, not only at weddings, but also at other times, other things, careers, and families will always have such relatives, pointing at you under the banner of being good to you, and meeting such relatives under the banner of being good to you, just like Xiaomei's husband mentioned above, just say no, so that relatives are afraid to say more.

When I meet some face books, I always feel that my relatives are embarrassed to say more and dare not turn their faces directly. That's often just because I'm depressed.

But in fact, although they are relatives, not all relatives are sincerely good to you, and they are sincerely planning for you. More often, it is irresponsible to blurt out, regardless of whether the point of view is meaningful or not, and whether the words spoken will bring contradictions to people.

For such relatives, once you meet them, leave quickly. Some relatives really can't be too kind to them. If you turn your face, turn your face. Sometimes, when you put down the malicious words, your ears will be quiet!