What do Mrs. He, Mrs. Dong, Mrs. Li and Xia Pozi in A Dream of Red Mansions have in common?

A Dream of Red Mansions is a book for women, so there are countless women in the book, which can be roughly divided into three categories. The first category is girls like Daiyu and Baochai, just unmarried girls. The second category is newly married Rainbow Xifeng and Li Wan, who are still kind and full of energy. Their age is about 15 to 35 years old. The third category is women over the age of 35. They don't call their wives anymore. Can only be called XX female or wet nurse, generally Baoyu is very annoying.

In Jia Fu's house, I wrote four women, namely, my mother, the little girl in Baoyu's room, Xia Pozi during her menstrual period, Dong, a woman who sent bird's nest to Daiyu by Baochai's side, and Li, a woman of unknown origin. These four women all have independent stories in A Dream of Red Mansions, and they all show a commonality, which harms others and themselves.

First, the stories about the four women in Jia's family are all low-level. The maids in Jiafu have clear grades, which can be roughly divided into four categories.

Old servants who have served their elders are more respectable than young masters, just like Li Wan and Wang Xifeng can only stand in front of old ladies, but they can sit by mammy and other old ladies. The second category is the woman who is the housekeeper. They are more respectable because they have power in their hands.

The third category is the big girl who serves the young lady. They are the "second-class grandfathers" in some women's mouths. Because she is the young master's personal maid-in-waiting, they often interfere with the master's thoughts, so their status is not low; Then there are little girls by grade, and finally there are old women who do rough work and chores.

Mrs He, Xia Pozi, Mrs Dong and Li Furen of the Jia family are in the same position because they are tied. They are the last category, and their stories are full of bitterness.

She is Chun Yan's mother. At first, she only did rough work, but later, because she got the job of maintaining flowers and plants in the Grand View Garden for women from Chun Yan, she could work in the Grand View Garden. Because I am new here, I don't understand many rules, and I have made many jokes and accidents.

First, because she was unfair to her goddaughter Fang Guan, she used her daughter's shampoo to wash her, so Fang Guan didn't agree, so everyone helped Fang Guan scold her. Then he scrambled to blow soup for Baoyu, and naturally he was scolded. Later, she was beaten by Yingying's wicker, and was taught a lesson. But this time, she also learned a lesson, knowing that it is good to listen to Chun Yan and not to act rashly.

Chun Yan said that in addition to their bad temper, her mother and menstruation also have a money-loving temper, which becomes more and more obvious as she grows older. No matter how much money they earn, they are not satisfied.

Chun Yan said, "Other people don't know, but my mother and her old sister, Menstruation, are getting more and more serious about money as they get older ... Not counting the expenses I save at home, there are still four or five hundred dollars a month, which is not enough ... These years are really rich. It's enough to move in now, but it's just greed. "

In addition to the story of Chun Yan, Xia Pozi also saw the lotus root official burning paper money, so he went to sue the lotus root official without asking why. Fortunately, Baoyu came out and said that the lotus root official was burning an irrelevant manuscript for Daiyu, which saved him. Later, Xia Pozi encouraged Aunt Zhao to play with the small players, but Xia Pozi never did a good job.

Mrs. Dong's story is also kind, that is, in the evening, she was ordered by Baochai to send Daiyu bird's nest and snowflake candy. When sending Dai Yu's bird's nest, she was still in a hurry, because she knew she was going to play cards, so Dai Yu gave her several hundred dollars to drink before leaving.

The old woman smiled and said, "I don't want to drink tea. I have work to do. " Daiyu said with a smile, "I know you are busy, too. If it's cold today and the night is long, it's even more important to have an evening show and gamble two games. " Hearing this, Daiyu said with a smile, "It's hard for you. I missed your wealth and sent it in the rain. " She told people to give him a few hundred dollars and drink some wine to shelter from the rain. Then.

Mrs. Dong didn't see how bad she was, but she liked to gamble at night, so she ruined the boat and would be punished if she was found out. Knowing that women would gamble at night, Daiyu gave Dong's wife the money out of consideration and respect.

Second, the four women in the Jia family have one thing in common: unreasonable and greedy for money. In Jia's family, the stories of these four women are similar. They are bullying people who are weaker than them. Their stories are nothing special. Just seeing their indifference to people and ignorance of the world will make them feel very annoying and hateful.

Perhaps their looks are just in line with Baoyu's evaluation of them: "Unmarried girls are priceless pearls; Without marriage, I don't know how many bad problems have arisen. Although it is a bead, it has no luster. This is a dead bead. When I get old, it will not be beads, but fisheye. "

These old women are really like Baoyu's evaluation. They have also moved from youth to today's appearance. When they were young, many of them were peaceful and kind girls, except those who were born with brains like Qiu Wen, but the years have changed their faces and changed their hearts.

In this book, she doesn't appear many times, but from the author's point of view, the author still talks to her with a very gentle attitude, but they are simply unreasonable and don't know the rules. They have no tolerance and consideration for the little girl who made mistakes. They just need to catch other people's mistakes and be happy.

And they will fall into a whirlpool, which is to value money very much. This can't be said to be wrong, but when money becomes more important, human nature becomes indifferent, which is a kind of harm to yourself and others.

Third, these four women were naive and romantic at first, but their lives have changed a lot. Because these four women have a low position in Jiafu, they usually get the least work and pay, so in the long run they will accumulate a lot of grievances and find no place to vent their emotions, so they will attack people who are weaker than them. This "invisible violence" will be passed on to each other, so their feelings will be more and more.

At the beginning, these old ladies were all clever maids around the young lady or master, and they were well treated. However, since the marriage, the maids have generally married the page, and their status has plummeted. If their husbands don't deserve it, their lives will be more hopeless and predictable, so they will become passive and unsympathetic, and their complaints will also make their lives fall into a gloomy state.

Because of the heavy oppression of life, the sense of security that money can bring will gradually increase, so later they will cherish it more and want to earn more money, which is the guarantee for the future and the greatest peace of mind.

Generally speaking, the four women in the Jia family are unreasonable and love money, which is their bad point and their sad point. They can't talk lightly about their abominations without having experienced life, because if life is all about bringing them beauty, they won't become like this. Everyone in the world has his own difficulties. If you can be considerate and tolerant, there is no need to hurt and blame others. You should be more understanding and comfortable. It's not that you won't fight back if you are hurt or wronged, but that you should let go of everything and be more tolerant and kind to others.

Author: eleven, welcome attention: the novel The Red Chamber, together to find interesting people and things in a dream of red mansions!