What does it mean that parents are punished to worship their parents, women are in charge of their husbands, and men are afraid that their wives will live a hard life?

For the counted people, similar to biological parents, it may be unfavorable to their parents, and they need to worship another couple as their parents (commonly known as "mom and dad", somewhat similar to adoptive parents). If the person is a woman, take care of her husband after marriage; If the person counted is a man, he should be in charge of his wife after marriage; In this way, life will be more difficult (live longer) and future generations will continue to reproduce.