I invited an incense burner in a small shop near the Lama Temple, because I only thought it was an incense burner, but its shape was that bergamot came home last night.

Your friend is right. There may be some spirits on old objects such as incense burners. If you don't give incense to the Buddha, these things can't be practiced by getting incense. You have influenced the way these things are done, but they hold a grudge and will get back at you. And you can't tell if there is anything spiritual on the incense burner. So if you are not going to worship Buddha, there are two ways to deal with it:

First of all, you can sell the incense burner or give it away. Even if there is a spirit on it, you will only go to the new owner of the incense burner, which has nothing to do with you.

Second, if you can't sell it or send it away, just to be on the safe side, I suggest you follow the Tibetan method in the Taoist ceremony of sending gods: first burn incense and pray, please forgive these gods, there is no fate between them, then pick up the incense burner, wind it clockwise for three times on the cigarette, then wrap it with gold paper, wrap it tightly with waterproof materials such as plastic wrap, find a secret place to bury it, and then burn some gold ingots by burning incense and praying. Don't talk to anyone before you go home. After entering the door, don't take the door behind you. Turn around and close the door.