Will you meet an old man asking for directions on the road?

In fact, it is a cliche whether people in need should lend a helping hand and how much to intervene.

If you meet Bian Xiao, you just need to ask the way and point out the direction. Usually you won't ignore them. If there is nothing and the destination is not far away, there will be no feeling of leading the way by yourself. If you encounter too much trouble or unexpected and unacceptable consequences, you may just say sorry.

This is what Bian Xiao really thought when he wrote this manuscript. As soon as this article was typed, Bian Xiao suddenly felt ashamed, and then began to reflect on when I had so many concerns. Now, if I encounter a situation that needs help, will I stand up or just ignore it like those people mentioned above?

How can society make people feel "indifferent"?

At that time, the judge who tried the "Peng Yu case" was empirical and common sense reasoning. In the judgment, he used a logic similar to "You didn't hit it, why did you help it", which deviated from the mainstream value and triggered public opinion. Maybe there are different reasons for the incident, but in any case, whether it is true or not, the impact of this incident is so great that all people who know this matter may have bad feelings when they need their own help.

With the growth of age and rich social experience, I gradually realized that every time I make a move, choose help and participate in events that have nothing to do with me, there is a price.

Time, energy, money, and even interfere with the trajectory of life. I pay more and more, and I may regret the decision at that time because of these unexpected irritability. That is countless troubles. I may have been lost all the time, but when I look back, I find that there is always something around me, the character abandoned by many people, the name and face that can't be exchanged for much money, the helpless eyes of the recipients, and even the angry face of competing for rice.

Are you willing to sacrifice yourself to help others after you know the cost? How much can you pay? Many people have their own pressures.