A person is the five signs of PUA (how to distinguish and deal with PUA behavior)

PUA(pick up artist), translated as "strike up a conversation artist" in Chinese, refers to a strike up a conversation method based on skills and psychology, aiming at making it easier for men to establish contact and intimate relationship with women. However, PUA's behavior often includes disrespect and aggression against others, so we need to be vigilant and guard against it.

Five signs of PUA

1. The other party shows excessive attention and enthusiasm: PUA people often attract the attention of the other party through excessive attention and enthusiasm, and make the other party feel good. If the other party shows excessive concern and enthusiasm, you need to be alert to whether it has been PUA.

2. The other party uses routines and skills: PUA users will use various routines and skills to chat up and attract each other, such as "cold reading" and "strange method". If the other party uses these routines and techniques, it is necessary to be alert to whether they have been PUA.

3. The other party tries to control and influence your thoughts and behaviors: PUA people will try to achieve their goals by controlling and influencing their own thoughts and behaviors. If others try to control and influence your thoughts and behaviors, you need to be alert to whether you have PUA.

4. The other party tries to make you rely on and trust: PUA people will try to achieve their goals by making the other party rely on and trust. If the other person tries to make you rely on and trust, you need to be alert to whether you have PUA.

5. The other party tries to make you violate your own values and principles: PUA people will try to achieve their goals by making the other party violate their own values and principles. If the other party tries to make you violate your own values and principles, you need to be alert to whether you have PUA.

How to deal with PUA's behavior?

1. Stay alert: If the other party shows any of the above signs, you need to stay alert and don't trust the other party easily.

2. Stick to your own principles and values: Don't go against your own principles and values in order to cater to each other, but stick to your own position.

3. Reject disrespect and infringement: If the other party's behavior disrespects and infringes on their own rights and interests, refuse decisively.

4. Ask for help and support: If you can't cope with each other's behavior, you can ask for help and support, such as friends, family members or professional organizations.

5. Enhance self-protection awareness: enhance self-protection awareness, learn to identify and deal with bad behaviors, and protect your rights and interests and safety.