Master Xue Shan? He's not your son.

After I became a monk, occasionally my family would send me messages, such as what happened to your daughter, she failed in the exam again, she was ill, and so on. When I heard the news, my first thought was to worry about my daughter. However, I will tell myself at once that it's not my daughter, it's just a neighbor's child, a person who is not related to me by blood. Am I kidding myself by thinking like this? Maybe you think so. No, for me, this is not self-deception, this is reality. I know very well that what I think is the truth. When I think like this, what happened to my daughter no longer affects me.

Your son is addicted to games every day and has the lowest academic record. You're worried about this. You're worried that your child won't even go to high school, have no job and can't get a wife in the future ... You've fallen into the maze and abyss about your son! You don't need to get rid of the six divisions in the wheel of karma, wake up from your son's fantasy and tell yourself that it's not my son. You left the six divisions in the wheel of karma.

What are the six divisions in the wheel of karma? Your six roots are fascinated by anyone or anything, all of which are your six paths and your reincarnation. Your son is the six divisions in your wheel of destiny. Because you are so fascinated that you can't see that it's not your son at all.

? "Isn't that my son? That's my own. I saw him born from my body. I can't believe that he is not my son. " You must think so. If you think like this, there will be fear, obstacles, pain and trouble. Because it's not true. The truth is, it was all a dream. You have no son! If you don't accept the truth, no one can help you.

Not only your children will worry you, but also your husband, wife and parents. Anything happens to them will affect you, and then you will start to worry about them. Each one is your six ways.

Only by truly seeing through that it is not your son can you get out of his six ways. This is too difficult! However, unless you see it clearly, you can't get out of this dream.

You have no real relatives, and no one in the world is really related to you, unless you live in fantasy, unless you live in illusion and inversion, unless you think you are real.

It's the same for everyone. The sons, daughters and parents you always thought were not your children or your real relatives. This is hard for us to accept, but it is true. This is the only reality we need to know. This is the only way out.

Come back to this reality, and you won't care what happens to your son. There are too many children in the world, and too many things happen every day. You can't ignore them. You only care about people and things related to you. If you clearly find out that it is not your child, you must no longer care about whether he has failed in school, and whether he is sick now, unless you are stubborn.

You have no children. Not only do you have no children, you don't even have yourself. You think you should take care of your child and worry about him, which is based on the biggest illusion that you are real. On the basis of this illusion, what do you think you have? You mistakenly think that everything is true.

That's not your baby. Understand this deeply and live in this reality, and you will find that all your worries, fears and troubles have disappeared. Think of your child as a child, a companion, someone you happen to meet in your life, or even just a grass, a duckweed and a drop of rain. Think of him as a completely independent person, a mystery that does not belong to you, even if he is still in infancy. When he is very young, you can take care of his body, but his inner world, his spirit, his thoughts, his personality, his study, his interests and his hobbies have no age. You can't control that part, you are not qualified to control it, you have no reason to control it, you can't control it. If you have to deal with it, you will hurt him. That part does not belong to you, to God, to nature, to karma. That part, he already has it, and no one can change it. Giving your child's hobbies, nature and inner world to God and yourself is your best love for him.

Seeing that it is not your child, you are an awakened person; Seeing that you are not real, you are no longer attached to anything, and seeing that everyone has nothing to do with you, you will let go of anyone. If you like someone, stay with him. How did he grow and change? Give it to karma and dreams.

Awakening from consanguinity is the first step of awakening. Getting out of my son's dream is the hardest part of the exercise.

Thank the author for learning from the Zen master, bless all readers and friends who are destined, praise with joy and bless love with gratitude.