Men are 65438 years older than women, okay?

Most young girls are not mature enough.

Nowadays, most young girls have been pampered since childhood, and have never suffered any hardships in life, so they don't know what life is.

I just heard people say that life is worldly wisdom and marriage is daily necessities, but I can't really understand the meaning because I haven't experienced it or not much. Therefore, it is easy to be full of expectations before marriage, and it is easy to be disappointed after marriage, and I don't want to insist.

What's more, because the thought is not mature enough, it is inevitable that there will be some willful and unreasonable behaviors.

After marriage, whether it is family chores or emotional problems, we can't face and deal with them rationally, playing childish and impulsive.

All these require men to be tolerant and considerate.

There is a more important question, whether men are willing to give girls time to grow up. It is normal for girls to like men who are more than ten years older than themselves, because such men are mature, responsible and reliable.

But feelings are mutual, and men need to rely on them. Therefore, it is best to be mentally prepared first.

Most young girls have personalities.

It's a generation gap, but not a generation gap. It's not a generation gap, but it seems to be.

When a man is in his thirties, years and life experiences will make him more and more pragmatic and steady, and his initial edges and characters will be smoothed by life.

But girls are different, with less experience and shallow experience, and have young people's personality, temper and living habits. As the saying goes, young and frivolous, sharp-edged, newborn calves are not afraid of tigers

When we first got together, everything felt good because of the freshness. But really living is different. Different living habits and concepts will directly affect the feelings of two people.

For example, young people prefer a free and chic life, love to play, and the focus of life may not be on the family. So this, whether men can understand and tolerate. When there are differences in cognition and ideas about the same thing, can they be tolerant and respectful?

You know, living is not a day or two, but decades.