Do you want to wash your husband's feet?

I have read the scripture that Jesus washed his disciples' feet, but I don't understand it. What do you have to wash your feet? And there are many sermons mentioned repeatedly, which make me think more deeply. Thinking that I have always claimed to love my husband, I asked myself: Would I like to wash my husband's feet? Think about it carefully, my forehead is sweating, because the answer is, no! It's despicable and disreputable. I can pour him foot washing water, which is the limit! I think the service action in the five languages of love should be based on the needs of others, and Jesus set such a good example. What are my reasons and excuses?

My husband always says that I'm just lip service, but I always deny it and always want to argue with him and say that I really love him. But love without action is dead, and love is not expressed by action. Where is my so-called love?

On the other hand, my husband likes children. He never talks about love, but he always shows it in his words and deeds. This morning, after I made breakfast, I was preparing dinner for everyone. I never even thought about it. When he saw it, he was anxious and said, "It's so late, please bring it to my little son first. He is afraid of burning. " Not only that, he is also afraid that the child can't eat because it is too hot, and he is stirring the child over and over again to make the milk cool. I don't know why I am particularly moved today, and my eyes are astringent. He often doesn't care about eating by himself, or takes two bites in a hurry to take care of his children's needs! He is really a good father who loves children.

And now that I think about it, we used to have a big contradiction, that is, he always found fault with the children, but I wouldn't. I always don't want to do it on the grounds of cultivating children's independence. But then I slowly observed that if I didn't find fault with my youngest son, he really seldom ate fish! He is a child who is a little afraid of trouble and doesn't like fish. When my husband eats fish, he always picks up the fishbone and gives it to him. He will also add some fish soup to add some flavor. Children can always eat happily, maybe during this period he felt his father's love for him! The eldest son loves to eat fish. He doesn't need to be picky. His husband always gives him a large part, especially when he meets children's favorite food. He doesn't eat much himself, or he only eats fish heads. Let the children eat happily and satisfactorily. He is really expressing his love for his children with his own behavior!

"Since you love your own people in the world, you love them to the end." This is Jesus' intention. When he was about to leave, he used to express his love, that is, washing his disciples' feet. He has power and authority, but he is humble, from the highest to the lowest. When he serves others with love, he is the most brilliant!

With the example of Jesus and my husband's behavior, what other reasons and excuses do I have? The biggest obstacle for me may be that I feel too embarrassed, and then there is the idea of self-reliance and self-improvement in my bones. I don't think I need others to do this to me, and I don't want to do this to others. Now that I think about it, is this still holding "I" high? I don't want to put myself down, and I don't want to do what others need.

When we become new people, everything is new, and we take the heart of Christ as our heart. If we still cling to ourselves, how can we enter the presence of God?

God, thank you for putting a great example like my husband by my side and reminding me from time to time what is the action of service and how to live out love. Love needs behavior, otherwise it will die, and it will really become a mantra, which is not good for people!

God, please change me, give me a willing and keen heart, be able to find the needs of others, and be willing to do what others need!

? Don't give up the second day of the training camp, issue 222.