I am from Datong, Shanxi, and my boyfriend is from Xiangcheng, Henan. What was their engagement process there? Should the engagement follow the custom of the man?

Xiangcheng, Henan Province has no special customs, and it will generally be done according to the local requirements of the woman.

However, there are some common processes.

The man's parents will bring gifts to propose marriage, and find a fortune teller to choose a good day for marriage. The two sides can discuss it. ...