How to solve the problem of discord between father and son in Zhouyi divination

This has nothing to do with fortune telling, but a philosophical problem of dealing with people. Don't talk back to each other. I can't get angry when the other side is going to quarrel. I want to listen carefully to each other's talk and abuse. After the other party has finished talking and understood the cause of the matter, we will discuss it well and see how to get the two sides to reach a settlement agreement.