My parents find someone to do the math. My boyfriend and I are not suitable. How can I convince my parents?

I think this may be an excuse for parents. They may think your boyfriend is not good enough. When your boyfriend has a successful career and a good reputation, when your parents nod their approval and stop objecting, you don't have to spend too much energy to convince them, and everyone is happy. But there are risks. He may fail in his career and will never cross the line of satisfying your parents. It may also be because parents have been opposed, and they have been impatient before that, and they parted ways in the middle, all in vain before.

You can tell them that if you are a good baby of your parents and break up with your boyfriend, let them arrange a blind date for you and get married. Your parents are satisfied, and you will be sad for a while, but it doesn't matter. In a year or two, you will forget each other completely. Or you can find another boyfriend who is satisfied with them and you are satisfied with them. But satisfied people may not find it. The person who arranges blind dates is never what you want. He will not tolerate and care for you unconditionally. Your life, like most people, is plain and will do.

After listening to this, parents also know that you can't get much happiness with people you don't love. If your boyfriend is really a trustworthy person, life will take care of you, be considerate and help you in the future. After marriage, I will treat you well. If you can be sure that he is such a person, then you can choose to stay with him and communicate with your parents rationally.

After all, parents will not harm their children. There must be a reason why their parents stopped them. If you think you can fight for it, you will bear any consequences after you get married, and your parents actually have nothing to say. You have to walk on your knees through the road you choose.