"Love and Kill" between Mother and Daughter

Because my mother was angry these days, I spent a day coaxing her. Actually, I always thought it was amazing. The way I get along with my mother is to

"Love and Kill" between Mother and Daughter

Because my mother was angry these days, I spent a day coaxing her. Actually, I always thought it was amazing. The way I get along with my mother is to dislike each other when we meet, and miss each other when we don't meet. I don't know what other people's mother-daughter relationship is like My mother and I have been in love and killing each other for more than 20 years.

? When I was a child, my mother was superstitious. I remember when I was in primary school, a fortune teller came to the village (yes, I came from a village in a small mountain village). My mother moved a small bench and began to tell my brother and me fortune. The old man gave me and my brother a serious look, gave an inscrutable well, shook his head and said to start with the male wretched. He said that my brother is very filial to my mother and will have a high salary and a happy and harmonious family in the future. Finally, it was my turn. The old man smiled and told me that my mother and I disagreed (no wonder I often quarreled with my mother) and said that I would be an ordinary person in the future. The only extraordinary thing is that I had to divorce three times (I felt sorry for myself for a second). At that time, I thought it was ridiculous, but my mother remembered seriously and firmly that I couldn't get along with her, and I wanted to divorce three times.

Looking back carefully, as long as I speak for my father, my mother can always remember that I disagree with her, and then, there is no more, because I was told that I have nothing to say (my mother is the queen mother of my family, but that position is unshakable). My mother also believes that I will divorce three times. I remember when I was in college, I often asked if I liked someone, if I liked someone. In my mother's mind, I have to find a partner early, so that I can get three marriages together quickly and then settle down later (not surprisingly, my mother is an activist, and I even thought about asking my brother to introduce me to someone). Now that I think about it, although my mother sometimes makes me feel incredible, she always cares about me and says nothing.

Now I have grown up and have the ability to support myself, but when I look at my mother again, I will find more and more wrinkles on her face, and her black hair is gradually replaced by white hair. Sometimes these things really cannot be considered and scrutinized. When I think deeply, I feel very useless. I failed to fulfill my filial piety to her and her father, but her health is already unhealthy. I feel that they have spent half their lives raising me, but I can't do more for them.

When I was a child, my mother liked singing and dancing. Because of the pressure of life, she lost her hobbies and began to make money with her father wholeheartedly to support her family. Now sometimes I feel that money is very important in my mother's eyes, which makes me sometimes disgusted. However, this is also forced by reality. When I was a child, my family was in poor condition. My mother looked at other people's dirty eyes and tasted the pain of having no money. She just hopes I won't follow her old path in the future.

I don't know if there are times when you are always kind and patient with your colleagues and friends, but you are always particularly impatient when you talk to your parents face to face. You are impatient when you say a few more words, and you always like to say something very hurtful. Mom and dad are the people we should repay, and their hearts are more fragile. When we think something is unimportant, listening to it in their ears means disgust and blame (these feelings are mainly that we were angry with our mother two days ago and said something we shouldn't have said, leaving us alone for a minute). They also have self-esteem, and they have no obligation to bear our bad temper.