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What should I do if my husband cheats? I can't get through this in my heart.

Life should be happy, but many things are always unsatisfactory. As a woman, what should I do if I find my husband cheating?

Objectively analyze the reasons for her husband's cheating? ?

Even if it is wrong for the husband to cheat, both of them are responsible for the problems in marriage. If you can reflect on yourself and make corresponding changes, then marriage can be saved. Most husbands' infidelity is not for divorce. Of course, this is not to ask the wife to cater to her husband blindly, but to make corresponding changes on the premise of objectively analyzing the marriage problems and promote the marriage to enter a virtuous circle system. If you don't know how to save a failed friend, don't lose heart. I wrote an article called "Chen Azong's complicated mental journey", telling my successful recovery experience. You can go and have a look and make a recovery after reference, which will be of great help to you.

Retreat for progress and be honest with each other.

When both people want this marriage to continue, please sit down and talk calmly. Retreat for progress, learn to tolerate and forgive, and think about "what makes the person I love most betray myself", which may be my own reasons. But as a wife, if you want to maintain this marriage, you'd better not ask some embarrassing things, because since things have happened, it's meaningless to investigate whose fault. If you are unreasonable, always saying that your husband is wrong will only increase his "guilt". When this guilt can't be weakened, he is prone to the mentality of "don't do it, don't stop, everyone will make trouble anyway, and I have nothing to keep", and your relationship will get worse and worse. On the contrary, tolerance, forgiveness and patience can make him feel "guilty", feel sorry for you and dare not hurt you again, so as to come back to you.

Stand on your own two feet and be an attractive woman? ?

Summarize and reflect on yourself, and don't let yourself be out of touch with society. Men are making progress while regressing, saying that they have sacrificed for their families, but their ideas cannot fall behind. The most important thing for a woman is to make herself clean and beautiful, pay attention to improving her self-cultivation and have her own things to do, even if she is a full-time wife, studying, fitness and beauty.