What are the obvious characteristics of non-virgins? How to judge whether a girl is a virgin?

I am a person who has deep feelings for virginity. I had a girlfriend before, but we broke up because the other party said I was not a virgin. I can't accept being a virgin You can call me traditional, but I also demand this from myself. I'm still a virgin, and I don't want to be a fool. I wonder what are the characteristics of being a virgin? How to judge whether a girl is a virgin?

1, how to judge whether a virgin?

1, troubles are always entangled:

She may be worried about something. Worry is so natural to her that she can even say that she has an indissoluble bond with worry. Even if her understanding is very small, she always seems to hide some great distress.

2, cleanliness:

Like cleaning, both cleaning and washing must be highly clean. Even refused to touch the handle and shake hands in the tram. This needs to be improved as soon as possible.

3. Pay attention to the details and quality of life:

Most virgins have good living habits and hygiene habits, so I hope that the other party should at least be clean and tidy, and not too sloppy. If you only have sloppy shortcomings, then she will definitely help you clean up neatly like her. They don't necessarily pursue luxury and fashion, and they don't necessarily like to wear colorful bubbles. They think that nature is beautiful.

4. Responsibility:

It is her motto to do her job meticulously. It is her creed and her greatest wish to do her job wholeheartedly, which is worthy of pride.

5, require love loyalty:

Love is the purest and most precious thing in their hearts, and they can't tolerate spiritual betrayal and physical betrayal. If they find their other half cheating, they may leave you without hesitation.

6. Kindness:

Virgos are particularly kind and pay attention to family life. Have special love, patience and compassion for relatives and friends. I always wanted my life to be full of laughter. People who are afraid of compromise are unwilling to split and unhappy.

7, critical spirit:

There are some indiscretions in personality, and you like to speak your views frankly and directly, which is very bad for you. Many people were hurt by your words.

8. Perfectionism:

Accustomed to a high level of completion of everything, and feel the joy of life. I am meticulous in cleaning, diligent in studying, and most enviably, I am lucky.

9, persecution paranoia:

A virgin is similar to the heroine in a tragedy, because nervousness always takes trivial matters to heart. There are always all kinds of fantasies in my mind, fearing that something will happen to me.

10, orderly:

Virgins have the gift of arranging things in order and completing every detail of life, so as to complete their service habits.

1 1, nervous:

Every detail is not easy to be flawed, and the pursuit of perfection leads to nervous thinking, which makes you unconsciously fall into a nagging state of constantly criticizing yourself and others around you.

They dare to face the world's doubts and betrayal of love. Their pursuit and desire for romantic love in their bones, strong picky and persistent will eventually miss the wedding, but they always expect to find the perfect other half, and sometimes they don't understand that love needs mutual tolerance and understanding.

13, easily hysterical:

Have a strong tendency to hysteria, be too harsh on yourself and others, and be full of trivial matters and nervous.

14, self pressure:

Because I am introverted and have no confidence in my own personality, I always feel "I can't". You should take off your typical high flyers face and have fun with your friends.

15, frugality:

Virgins are quite frugal, good at calculating the prices of various items and can buy more valuable things. Will earn wealth through personal experience, and the concept of investment and financial management also has a good performance.

16, wife and mother:

Hard-working, full of sacrifice, gentle and introverted, very understanding, cheerful and lively, love family life; Love and children are the joy of her life, and she is a typical life-style woman who is easy to satisfy.

17, tasteful:

Educated, far from the world. I like to be calm, clean, clear and honest with people and things. Although secular, it is not "divorced from reality". They know that people can't live in a vacuum, and everyone can't "jump out of the three realms and not be in the five elements".

18, charm:

Virgin women have an inner charm and a unique romantic temperament that is not disturbed by the "new trend". Her modesty sometimes develops to the point of being afraid of being noticed. So she always keeps a certain distance from life, and is willing to put aside her happiness and contribute all her energy to others.

19, self-esteem, self-love and self-improvement:

Virgins are neither humble nor hypocritical in getting along with others, nor do they flatter or bully others. I'm afraid of causing trouble to others, so I try to solve it myself.

20, reality and dreams:

She may be extremely practical and pursue fairy-like romance at the same time. When I encounter difficulties, I always believe that my winter is pure and I will never change my direction.

2. The definition of a man's virgin complex

1. For a man with a virgin complex, this is a question of dignity. In addition to dignity, this is also a manifestation of men's desire to conquer.

2. Similarly, virgins are sacred, pure and desirable in men's hearts. Most men want to marry a virgin as their wife, and may also mind or dislike the influence on marriage.

3. It is normal for men all over the world to have a virgin complex, which is also related to culture and education.

4. Men in patrilineal society often have a virgin complex. There are probably the following forms of sexual relations in nature: polygamy, polyandry, promiscuity and monogamy.

Through research, scientists found that all races and tribes on the earth have love stories. Most of the protagonists in love stories are virgins.

3. How to overcome the virgin complex

1, recognize the essence of things

Virgo is precious, but there is nothing wrong with being a virgin! As long as you pay your feelings seriously, you will naturally pay your body; No one knows whether it was worthwhile to pay at that time, no one must be responsible for a future and unknown person, and no one was born destined to be someone else's.

Only by letting a man clearly understand this essence can he subconsciously resist non-virgins and accept this fact safely.

2. Face up to your girlfriend's love for you.

In feelings, you can prove the depth of feelings without measuring them by sex. Instead of reducing the number of sex, your other communication should be at least as important as it. Try to be a bosom friend or even a relative, and show that you can do something for her that she couldn't get before. Being with you, whether happy or sad, is irreplaceable by others.

3. Know your own shortcomings

When a man feels that a virgin has imperfect regrets, he should look at himself. He can't be perfect forever, and he will have other shortcomings. It is better to accept some regrets and concentrate on enjoying other advantages than to get rid of the pressure of pursuing perfection.

4. Understand each other, tolerate each other and cherish each other.

Two people go through life hand in hand, not only to love each other's advantages, but also to understand her shortcomings and tolerate her past. Life is a process of growth. It doesn't matter what you experience. You learn to cherish love through experience, and the ability to make your marriage happy is the most important. It is inappropriate to let the past destroy the happy present. Hymen is not more important than a lifetime of marital happiness.