Ambiguous

If the language is unclear and vague, the other party will often scrutinize it in the direction that is beneficial to him and explain it without authorization, which will easily lead to the illusion that "he knows me very well". This is the usual trick of fortune telling. For example, the fortune teller asked, "Is there a tall pine tree in front of your house?" If the fortune teller is right, you will be surprised. If you answer no, the fortune teller will immediately say, "No, that's great, otherwise it will make your family restless." This clever answer won't make the other person suspicious at all. Another example is the fortune teller who said, "Ah! You are close to the water. " This vague rhetoric has made the crew, water company and bathhouse staff get in touch. If there are rivers, ponds and reservoirs near their home, it can be said that they are predestined with water. Even when I was a child, I fell into the water and almost drowned. I can imagine it in my mind and admire the fortune teller. It is not advisable for fortune tellers to cheat, but as a speaking skill, they are really smart. When the boss meets his subordinates in the corridor or bathroom of the company, he will pat them on the shoulder and say, "I know you are busy recently, but I hope you don't relax and work hard!" " "Everyone has something to deal with more or less. At this time, many difficult things will be associated with men's minds, thinking that the boss knows himself very well, and then he will summon up courage to make progress. It can be seen that if we can master and use this skill skillfully, we can grasp each other's psychology even if we are unfamiliar with it and achieve better results.