What are the reasons for those who abandon their children?

Generally speaking, most parents abandon their children because the family burden is too heavy to support them. If you can afford it, who wants to give up their own flesh and blood easily? Some people say, then why were you born?

Most of this situation is also caused by feudal ideas. They wanted to raise a son, but they unexpectedly gave birth to a daughter. They can't afford to have another son. What are we going to do? We have to give up one. In the 1970s and 1980s, many people had to abandon their daughters in order to have a son and avoid being fined by the state, because the state controlled family planning. These are all caused by the patriarchal ideology. Of course, in the old society, due to the lack of contraceptive measures, children who had to be raised could not live and had to be abandoned. You can't blame your parents for all this. There is really no other way in that society. There is also an unmarried pregnancy. This kind of people will abandon their children because they are not married, and their husbands have children and can't marry their fathers, so they will abandon their children in order to avoid being laughed at by society. Finally, in order to pursue her so-called happiness, such as divorce, such as running away from home and abandoning children, this is the most reprehensible, because she is completely selfish. Although there are others, they are not representative, so I won't talk about them. In a word, except for the helplessness of the old society, all acts of abandoning children should be condemned.

When we see things like abandoning children, we will feel great hatred from the heart. When we watch innocent children sobbing, we will hate and even curse those vicious parents. Why did they abandon their own flesh and blood? Often those parents will take the following three points as reasons for their actions and swear.

1, because the husband and wife are incompatible, they choose to abandon it. As mentioned above, many vicious parents will separate because of the disagreement between husband and wife. In their hearts, the children raised by the two have become a burden in this one, and there is no love for the children, only hate. Therefore, they prefer to abandon, and some even pin their hatred on their children, swearing at them and even kicking them.

2. Because of children's defects, they choose to abandon newborn babies the most. They often abandon their parents because of birth defects. Often these vicious parents will leave notes to tell their misfortunes and have no ability to raise children with physical defects. To put it bluntly, they have no responsibility as parents. If they do, they will never want to leave their children in a corner where no one pays attention.

Because of cowardice, they choose to abandon many abandoned children. Their parents think that their financial ability is limited and they are unable to raise their children. I think I have accomplished nothing, I don't want this child at all, I don't want to add any extra burden, and I don't even want to spend money on abortion, just waiting for the child to be abandoned. They are too timid to try to raise children, dare not try to face them, and will only silently beg their children to be adopted by good people. Conclusion: Parents have no reason to abandon their children cruelly. People who can do such things are not qualified, but parents only expect those children to have the best home, not to start in the cold wind, only to have more good people to stand up and help these poor children, only to hope that there is no dark side in society, and all children can grow up happily without diseases and disasters!