The fortune teller says I am not gentle enough _ What if the fortune teller says you are not good?

The fortune teller said that I was an emotional failure and my emotional intelligence was very low. I get paranoid easily, and it's true. What should I do?

Just from these appearances, your self-confidence in daily life is not very sufficient, your principle is not strong, and you are easy to compromise with others.

Looking for a fortune teller shows that you believe him to some extent. Since you believe him, what he said has a great influence on you. If he says hello, that's fine. If you have any disasters or difficulties, you are likely to believe that these will happen. If so, your destiny is equivalent to being "judged" by others, not being created by yourself. Do you think this is right?

A 70-year-old man looking for a fortune teller probably means calculating how long he can live. The fortune teller said that he was 90 years old. The old man is very happy. Before the age of 90, he lived a carefree and relaxed life, because he had goals and beliefs in his heart, and nothing would happen before the age of 90. But when he is 90 years old, it means the end of his life. Slowly, he didn't think about tea and rice, lost sleep, and worried too much. Within a few months, he scared himself. Why? His faith was given by others. If the fortune teller says that he can live for 92 or 95 years, he will live a carefree life before his fixed number of years. Maybe he can really live for 92 or 95 years, because he has faith in his heart! So this belief must be grasped and created by ourselves, not by others.

Therefore, you should control your own destiny and don't leave it to others to "judge"!

You should cheer up, regain your confidence and dare to pursue your own happiness!

Where to find self-confidence, there are not many sources, start with the little things you think you can do hard! I believe that you have worked hard and paid, and God will definitely repay you!